i hate when men are pms'ing.

ok so last night, we actually had a pretty good evening w/ kaos. then lurch went over to friend's house for a few hours. theeeen dh went to bed early. when lurch got back home, kaos' energy level started to spike. great...

he starts to push his luck several times, so i escape back outside. then kaos comes out and says "grandpa needs to be taken out." my response, "ok i'll get him in a few minutes." A.) does he go back inside? or B.) does he hover in the doorway and start pestering me for the next four minutes, TELLING me i need to get up and take the dog out, staring a hole in the back of my head and "WELL??? are you gonna take care of him or what?" for any who answered 'B', ding ding ding we have a winner!!!!

he went back in after a few minutes slamming the door behind him and leaving all the lights on in his wake (a passive-aggressive move). instead of following him, i picked up my phone and called him. he hung up on me.

so i sent a text and copied dh on it "thanks for hanging up on me. do i need to give you a tutorial on how a light switch works? i'll gladly help you with that. by the way, dont question me again about how i take care of my pets. u havent seen your cat for 2 hours." (side note, he is an outdoor cat that kaos is forever trying to make into an indoor cat. he knows the rule, if you let cat in, keep him in your room. so he let him in last night - ok fine. cat ended up hanging out in kitchen, but kaos was in his bedroom with the door closed, only coming out for a minute or two at a time. an hour later, same thing. so i put him back out. and he never once went looking for it.)

so after that text i didnt hear a peep. good, i'm hoping my point was taken.

just a few minutes ago, i called dh about something and instead of answering "hey babe", he answers "YEAH." :? :? :? well i told him what i had to tell him, then he asks me "why did you include me in that text last night?" i told him it was in case kaos erupted, dh would have seen the exact same words and have record of it. then he says "was that really necessary about the cat? every time he lets him in, you turn around and put him right back out." um, dh, he was inside the house for quite a while with no attention from anyone. he shouldnt question me about my pet when he's not even taking care of his.

weeeellll then the real crux of the matter came out. "i dont know why you made such an issue out of it. HE even mentioned it to me this morning that AAALLLL he DDIIIIIIIDDDD was AAASSSSKKKKKK you to take grandpaaaaaa out." (and yes, i wrote that last part in kaos' voice.) i said "that's bull$#!t hun and you know it." "well none of it was even necessary, you shoulda just let it go."

i quit talking, dh is entitled to his opinion and i wasnt gonna engage any further to avoid an argument. when i do that it always pisses him off even more. he said a few more things, i responded with silence and he finally said "i gotta go" and hung up without a goodbye.

effing really dh? pester the $#!t out of me simply to exert some sort of control over me (which he tries to do a lot, some sort of twisted pissing contest in his own mind), then slam the door, leave all the d@mn lights on, AND hang up on me and i should have just let it go? oh i think NOT.

PMS? full moon? manopause, maybe??? *smdh*