I quit. I wish I could just turn off the part of my brain that allows me to think of the future, because there is no point.
My mom was talking to BM's little sister yesterday, the one who shares a room at her parent's place with BM, and the sister blabbed some not so nice news.
I guess BM's dad has been applying for work in the next province over and has had an interview. He's waiting to hear back from them now. The sister is super excited to be moving, small town girl moving to the city (she's 12). I'm excited for them but I know that BM is going to have to make some sort of decision about where she is going to live, and well she's not very good at those.
The way we see it, BM could stay in our town and live in a low income house, she makes enough money to do it between the child support and child tax benefits (or what ever those checks are called). If this happens, we will probably be able to see Sd more, and Sd would have a better attitude. Bm is dumb but she has the same general ideas we have about manners ect. She's just not as good at enforcing them!
Bm could move with her parents, a twelve hours drive from where we are. In this case we would rarely ever see Sd and she will continue to develop into the little brat that her Grandma thinks is SOOOO CUTE (gag).
Or (worse case scenario), Bm could decide she is going to move to the next town (again) and live with her new boyfriend. This means another court case. We can not stand by and allow BM to keep dragging Munchkin all over the country so she can chase tail. Dh has said if this is what she is planning we will be going back to court and he is going to get a lawyer. (I'm too pregnant to think about this.... I can't handle another trial.)