Because, I swear my DH has begun doing the red flag waving dance in my line of vision this weekend ....
Do you know the dance I mean ??? DH has contact from the skids, even a memail from sd21 !!! And lo and behold, he thinks they are cured again, what little selective memory he has about how he was treated by her , disappears and he is churning out the old favourite lines.... " I think they are finally growing up " :jawdrop:
" I think ( sap) bf has been a great help to sd21 " :jawdrop: " I' m wishing sap bf a Happy Birthday " in his reply email to her " Is it ok to add your name to it ?" :jawdrop: He has never spoken to or met or even been really told about sap bf , but is now all pally and jolly and happy birthdaying him ?? I just looked at him and said...why ? It's like me saying happy birthday to a stranger on the street...who does that ??? :jawdrop:

Neither skids have had ANY kind of regular even part time jobs EVER !!! Yet, he was mentioning how once they are working , he will be HAPPY to sort out the car insurance and driving lessons for them as he promised he would do this !!! Man, I thought, all of this was sorted a long time ago.... But it seems DH was just making the right noises again !!! Grrrrrr !!!! I think his guilty cup is beginning to overflow again, and he needs to swoop in and save the day, as Super Dad to ungrateful sd21 and a younger skid, who seems to be heading that way... No job... No prospects, etc !!! Although, I have been happy in my own little field of disengagement, chewing at the grass , I am now being thrown back into the whole utter crazy chaos !! I reminded him that he did already finance sd21's driving lessons, what 2 years ago, but she stopped doing them, and has never had a job to help finance them and of course, the expense of buying a car and keeping it going !!

My DH had better not be thinking of heading US back down that street, because I am not going to go down there...not again.... It always amazes me how everything else in our lives is great....it's just always the same sh** with the skids....always.....

Gee, all this and the trip to see the skids coming soon, his timing is wonderful. I have been thinking about things and made a nice payment into my secret escape account today !! Hope I don't have to touch it any time soon.......