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Gah !!! DH is chasing the Adult Skids AGAIN !!!

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Submitted by Sweetnothings on Mon, 08/12/2013 - 6:35am

Haven't been on here for a while, so just having a little vent today.

DH is chasing Ass 1 and Ass 2 , this is his usual behaviour after a ' visit ' to see them. He's feeling all gulity Dad-ish with rose tinted glasses firmly in place, etc.

Now, Ass2 wanted to move in with us, as I mentioned before, but DH and I said no ( tons of reasons, see my past entries ) also, during the last visit DH did NOT give ASS2 any money ( 20, unemployed, school drop out, still barely living with BM, she is royally pi** ed off now the money train stopped, lol )

I AM disengaged but I get a little annoyed with the DH, honestly, even after ALL these years you still cannot or want to see it ..... Unless you are throwing money (or things ) at these Adults, you really aren't needed.

DH would never chase any other family member or friend like this, and scoffs about such behaviour in others.

I know it's the good ol' Step double standards, but I just wish he would settle again.....sigh !!!

Vent over !!!

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Submitted by Sweetnothings on Tue, 08/13/2013 - 11:53am

I know, usually DH settles down quickly, but Ass2 is ignoring him ( not answering DH's calls or emails ) as DH has stopped all the money, and won't wade in and spend thousands on rescuing this lazy, unemployed 20 yr old ( never worked ) )

So DH is being " punished " with the radio silence, etc.

Meh.