So I am going to own this, never deviate from the decree, he asked on Friday if we could meet in the north metro verse his place in the south metro because he was planning on being up there and didn;t want to drive back just to make me pick up BS. I stupidly said yes because it was logical and would be convenient. When I texted on Saturday to nail down where he launched into a non stop campaign or negotiation as he called it for more time and threatening that his new attorney would love our exchange because I was holding on to my animosity. I love that I am doing him a favor and he turns it into I need to do something for him. In realty I actually agreed to let him see bs for 2 hrs just during the summer on a trial basis to see how it went. ( My son is turning 8 and wants to see him more than the EOW, against my better judgement I am willing to try...besides if he were to take me back to court the attorney says he would get it because neither BM1, my former step kids or his parents will back me up in court with what an ass he is. It is my word against his. Attorney feels this makes me look cooperative if he really does force mediatuion like he threatens. I don't think he has a new attorney he is just a prick. I ended up telling him to quit threatening me and not sure how anyone would find fault in these texts.

Then BS tells me last night that dad told him a secret, but he couldn't keep it from me. I told him it was okay, he then said he wanted to write it down... apparently after 3 1/4 months my ex husband and his GF ( victim ) are going to move into his place and then in April they are buying a town home...well she will for him to live in and for the kids to visit as he can't because of the forclosure and backruptcy. My god this woman is going to need to be on here.

I told BS ( who likes new GF/ she is ex's 9th this year) that I will not say anything and mommy doesn't care as long as new victim is nice to him. Dad can do what ever he wants and I will not say anything about it.