I was sitting in living room watching TV, while DH was in other room working on a project. I heard him on phone an asked who it was. He told me it was SS20. I wanted to know what ss wanted, he didn't answer. Do I said,"let me guess... He wants $$ or food" well DH said ss wanted to borrow $$ to get his glasses ordered. Of course common sense on my part, I asked him "how much?" He replies "oh well he needs $100". I reminded him, nicely, that ss had borrowed $$ before and has NEVER paid it back!!! Not only does he want to"borrow" this $$, he won't even come here to get it,Dh Was taking it to ss and then, as he was walking out the door, he informed me, he was taking ss down to the actual eye Dr to pay it. Which is on the other side of town. I just don't understand why ss can't go down and do it himself. why he can't pay for them himself... He does have a job. But he even asked his mom (MMM) to borrow it, of course she didn't have it, but even if she did, how did he think he wad going to get it from her?