Let me start by saying that this post is NOT about my SS21 who is living with us.

My other SS23 who has in the past gotten into trouble with the cops, they raided his house and took a bunch of pills and stuff.
Well, that was 3 months ago and ONCE AGAIN he just got popped for the same shit and theft!!
He called my DH today and asked if he could come over and get a shower. DH "that's fine"
Well, I told him right up I didn't like the idea of him coming here, and that under NO circumstances was he staying here!! Dh was in agreement with that! I had to take DD to store so I went out and picked SS23 up. Noone ever said anything about his little trifflin ass GF coming too! He put like 5-6 duffle bags in the van and I was thinking like WTF!
Well, when he get in the van he starts kissing ass, like he's my BFF. I told him he could just stop bc Im not buying it.
He got here and was talking to DH, DD and gf. DH told him that we have NO room for him to stay here and that he would have to find another place to stay. When they were still talking, I had to take DD to work. I come home to find SS and gf BOTH in the shower together!!! Dh said something to them. SS kept walking around our house like he lived here, DH told him he didn't need to be walking around our house, since he don't live here!
SS gets into my ice cubes (the reusable plastic type) and gets a big glass soda. I wondered where he got it from then I saw what kind it was.......it was grape. The only grape soda I have in the house are the 3 lt. that I bought for my DD graduation party this weekend!!!!!! Mind you he never asked anyone if he could have it. He got into my favorite cereal and had a big bowl of it, once again without asking! (By now I have the flames of hell shooting out of my head)
He takes food and drink in the living room which is against the house rules, and yes my DD and I both told him, but he did it again anyway. And yes, I told him again!
I am sitting here on my pc and I hear him in the kitchen, and he is opening a soda, I look thinking maybe its the grape.....NO IT'S A BRAND NEW 3 LT!!!!!!! I tell SS "hey those are for DD graduation party." SS looks at me and says "Oh my bad"and puts it down and get the grape and drinks it!! I go tell DH he better do something or I'm going to explode, and the whole damn house is going down.
Now it is going on 8:30pm and SS comes to me and asks me to wake him up at 6. I said ummmm its already 8. He said 'ummmm well I mean in the morning duh!
I tell him that DH and I have already said that he is not staying here. There is no room.
Well, guess what its almost 1 am and the damn SOB is upstairs sleeping. He waited until 11pm tonight to say "Oh I couldnt find any other place to stay tonight and I already said I needed to stay here, since I start my new job tomorrow, and this way I can get to work" (he must think Im taking him.l.........hahahahahahahahahaha BS he can walk ) He also tells DH " I need to talk to you alone, and have a heart to heart talk with you" I said to Dh as he was leaving for work, " So what is SS saying , that since Im around he cant talk to you?" Dh said " I've been having heart to heart with him and he doesn't listen, all he wants is to mooch and its not happening here he can go somewhere else" He better not think he's coming back here tomorrow.
So now Im still up, pissed, I cant sleep knowing that he's here, and he's a thief. Let alone I have to wake him up at 6 am. When I don't normally wake up until almost 8am.

So bring on the hard liquer, because the wine ain't cutting it tonight!!!!
Thanks for letting me vent.