Oh my, did I shame BM into being a mom?
So, the skids came back from their month of summer visitation with their mom on Sunday. During her time with them, they had soccer sign ups for the fall on two Saturdays. I asked the skids if their mom signed them up or if I needed to do it.
They said, BM told them that they filled up so skids wouldn't be able to play soccer this year. "Ya, she said they filled up by noon."
I just said, "oh really? I'll have to call about that."
So the next day I called the lady and she said they had PLENTY of space, in fact she was wanting it run in the paper that they're still taking registrations because the turnout wasn't great at the signups.
Wow, so BM LIED??? How very like her!
I made sure and told the kids that evening that they would be playing soccer and I don't know why BM had trouble signing them up, the lady said there was plenty of room.
SD10 knows her mom's a liar, so she just said "hmm."
Well, the skids went to their mom's for the weekend and BM calls FH at noon today and says she's taken care of the soccer registration and fees.
I'm thinking the skids went to her house saying, "Stepmasochist said there's plenty of room in soccer and SHE'S going to sign us up." LOL
And, of course, she can't be outdone by the stepmom. But it happens all the time with things as simple as letting them take their lunches to school, taking them to the library and signing them up for activities. Wow.
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That's hilarious
I can never understand these BMs!
I guess it doesn't matter... she probably lied to them about lying anyway!
"Don't cry because it's over. Smile because it happened." Dr. Seuss
Busted!
What a lovely sight - BM with egg on her face and a lie from her lips!! one of those childhood memories they will treasure? LOL
"It's funny how dogs and cats know the inside of folks better than other folks do, isn't it?"
- Eleanor H. Porter (1868 - 1920), 'Pollyanna', 1912
My BM is trying to step up as a Mom but fails
When DH and I got engaged that's when I think BM realized she might be replaced and someone might expose her as the 1/2 ass Mom that she was. That's when the boys started spending the night with her mid week. The actual decree says if both parents agree then the kids can spend the night?? Their parenting plan was probably written by the psycho. By the time she found out we were getting married that's when her fantasy of getting back with DH was clearly over. BM told my MIL that she loved DH and needed to go find herself (she was sleeping with any man that passed her way) and they would be back to together in about 18 months. I met DH near that time. She lost it!
2 months of peace is what I received then she filed for custody. I started keeping documentation on her and her behavior way before she filed...she only wants SS15. She never could pay attention to all her kids at the same time. SS15 is the Golden Child in my MIL eyes. She pretty much raised him because BM would drop the boys off at her house so she could run around. SS15 is eating up the attention this past year....and then the other 2 boys are left with whatever she will give them.
Last night DH called to check on them and SS15 went to the store with BM and her loser of a H. BM told SS11 he couldn't go and left SS13 and SS11 by themselves for almost 2 hours. This is the stuff that a child remembers but then she is a sociopath and really could care less. BM is mad at SS11 and SS13 from ruining her plans to get CS in the custody issue. They want to live with DH. BM wasn't planning on the youngest to turn DH way. But then SS11 remembers how he was given attention and this last year has been tossed to the side.