Only 2 more days!! Need to Vent
For christs sake the BM just will not accept when my DH says he is not doing something he is not doing it.....
She is insisting that DH bring SS to her to stay overnight for a camping trip. He told her not tonight as 1. She has court scheduled early thursday morning and 2. He has to much going on and can not make it down there. That they could work something out for friday afternoon.
She just once again points out it is illegal to withhold her child from her and reminds him she is the custodial parent that if he does not bring SS down to the campground she will call the police. FFS......gggggrrrrrrr. Dumb bitch it is your responsibility to come pick SS up if you truly feel you must. DH is not withholding he is following the court order which states that recieveing parent must pick up child. SO FUCK OFF!!!!!
Geez.....please God let the Judge Award my DH primary custodial parent and Sole legal custody on Friday....please please please. Im about fed up with this shit! We have also requested that the court order OFW for any and all communication needs.
We so need to file for a restraining order!
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BMs (and skids for that
BMs (and skids for that matter) do this to my DH, and you know why?? Because it ALWAYS works. They will call and ask for something, DH will say "no". But they just keep it up, keep asking, keep pestering, keep demanding until DH caves and they get what they want. The last time this happened, DH was bitching up a storm about GBM1 hounding him about a new phone for SD16.. "I am so sick of talking about this, I already said no, she won't let it rest, blah blah blah"
I said "DH, stop and think about the past 16 years. EVERY.SINGLE.TIME. they want something, this is their M.O. pester and pester and pester until you flip out and don't want to deal with them. You end up saying yes, to get them to leave you alone and they get what they want. This is YOUR fault!"
I'll admit he has gotten better, he didn't cave on the phone issue and guess what? GBM figured it out and SHE got SD16 her stupid phone. For some reason DH has never been able to figure out that as long as you keep feeding the monster, the monster is not going to go away.... apparently this is quantum physics or something...
Well he has told her no. And
Well he has told her no. And he has ignored all the rest. Luckily we have so much going on right now that he REALLY cant take the hour to drive him to her. Sigh..... I just hate hearing his damn phone notification go off every five minutes with her next harrasing text.....only 2 more days, only 2 more days.....