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ugh...bm showed up at fh work!

smnikki's picture

well yesterday she asked, but today she just showed up!

She said that ss4 was laying with her and said that he doesnt think daddy loves him anymore, and that fh and i always fight. (this coming from a woman who calls in tears because she and bf are fighting, yeah, wtf ever) anyways, she then changes the story to say that he told mil last night when he spent the night there. and that she wants 70 30. He told her F U, do not ever come to my work again, or i will accuse you of harassment, and get in your car now and leave or i will call the police. He also brought up her crying, and the fact that she obviously isnt serious and only wants an excuse to see him because if she was seriously worried for her son, she would go directly to court or call him, NOT harass him at work!

in the end, he hates her even more! and to top it off hes even more mad at my mil that is ss said something she didnt call him directly (since they talk now again) and now his whole wanting her (mil) back in our life is now again out of the question!

i love it!(except that these two horrible people put themselves before the happiness of ss) keep up you two nuts, you just keep sinking your self! and with out doing anything i have everything i want and need in the end!

when are they going to learn, perhaps the two of them can take the one brain cell they each have, rub them together, and figure it out!

as some one said, lol, i cant remember, I run This Sh!t! hahahahahahahahaha

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Stick's picture

That's crazy that she showed up at his work! Why couldn't she just wait until he got out of work and then try to talk to him? It is a lot of drama! I guess though, in the end, she's digging her own grave with this stupid behavior! Don't you just want to try to tell her to stay the f*$@ away from your man? Although she would probably love that... Sounds like you are doing the right thing by letting her own idiotic tendencies get the better of her! Good luck!

kaffonseca's picture

I run this..haha..that is how I feel with FH and BM HATES it. She used to show up at his job too..oh "the baby wanted to see you" like a 2 yr old just comes out and says "let's go to daddy's work" give me a break..I made him put an end to that. I don't even go to his job!

I know BM hates me because FH had never told her not to do any of it..but when I came along he put a stop to her everyday calling for nothing and her stopping at his job two times a week. .. she said before that she was his "son's mom..so she has first priority" he put her in her place. You have to love that feeling.
"He grew up in my heart, not my belly"