So DH hasn't been all that happy with the way the skids and my daughter BD9 have been cleaning their room. BD9 is there several times a week so she plays but usually will pick up after herself.

The room has become a disaster area. I so wish I could post the pictures of what was all over the floor. Tons of clean and dirty clothes were stretched from one end of the room to the other. I took pictures after the skids left and after BD9 had picked up her stuff. SD11 had several pieces of clothing strung around the room, to include underwear ( not sure if clean). SD8 had almost everything she owned at our house scattered accross the floor. SD8 had broken the "walking doll" DH bought her last year for christmas. I mean tore the arms off and pulled out chunks of the hair.

As we were cleaning I saw some paper and stuff beside the dresser. This dresser is very very heavy and about 6 drawers tall. It hasn't been moved since the day we put it in the room last december. There is a very thin space to push anything back there. I pulled out the paper and saw cloth still there. I reached back and pulled it out.

If you have a weak stomach, don't read further!

Apparently SD8 had pissed and shit her underwear and stuffed them beside the dresser. Yes I know they were her's because they were the ones MIL bought her last year. They hadn't been in the wash, so I assumed they had been thrown away because they got to small as SD8 has went from a 6 last december to a 10 this year.

I had been wondering why there was a nasty smell coming from that room. I have been in there a few times but never thought to check beside the dresser. DH tried to say they were BD9's because she's smaller than SD8 but I told him no way because I know my kids clothes and all of them, even those from Exh house have her initials in them because he use to have a gf living with him and a girl my daughter's age.

So he text Jabba the slut and she said "are you sure they aren't SD11's?" Seriously! So BM apparently is well aware that her kids are messing their underwear and hiding them. DH told her by the size they are not SD11's. DH said because SD11 has issues with her bowels that's why she asked.

I am so disguisted. I ran to the bathroom to wash my hands and told him it was up to him to pick up anything else. There will be an inspection after they leave every time, DH will be doing it and he will be pulling out the bed, dresser and bookshelf, to make sure there aren't anymore dirty underwear.

Here is the thing, we have a hamper in the bathroom for the kids. All SD8 had to do was put them in the hamper. DH told BM to only tell SD8 "if she had an accident to throw the underwear out". Personally they could be thrown in the wash but not months or a year later. DH nor I have ever yelled at any of them for having any accidents. Of course BS13 and BD9 haven't had any accidents in the last few years, except when BD9 had a virus and couldn't make it to the bathroom.

I just don't understand what would make a child shove them all the way to the back of the dresser, instead of the hamper or throwing them out. They go to the trash can without anyone all the time. The hamper is always full of clothes, we wash on the weekends and they load up the hamper EVERY time they are there EOWE.

This is the kind of stuff that makes me so upset. I wouldn't have yelled at the kid and Dang DH barely even tells them NO. Seriously, WHY do these skids do these things?