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Sassy's picture

every little thing has to be a f*ing battle with these BMs? Damn it damn it damn it!!!!!!!!! I asked for the kid's shots records...not so hard, do you have them or not? She say's well why do you want them. I'm like "really, are you that f*ing retarded? THEY NEED THEIR SHOTS ASSHOLE!!!!!! And, since you, their mother, take no responsibility for them, I will..I made a Dr appt so they can get their immunizations-you know like a mom is supposed to...so then she's like, oh, well I have no idea if I have them, just get their records from their Dr. I am already doing that, loser, but I need to update the immunization cards once I figure out who needs what and how many prior shots you missed.

It is really not that hard, right? you know, to do what you are supposed to. We just had this exact conversation three weeks ago. Two of my SS are getting their driving permits and I needed thier birth certs. Good golly you would think I asked for the papers to her finances. Then finally she admits,"I can't find them-I have no clue where they are" Two weeks later she finds them and tells me "you keep these from now on, I am not that good at filing stuff" DUH!!!! So now I have their birth certs, but stll need to get their social security cards and shot records....it's like pulling teeth (from a pissed off tiger). So she says, "when I find their SS cards I will give you those too, that way they won't get lost" How pathetic! AHHHHHRRRRRGGGHHH

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stepmom2one's picture

At least she admits that she is bad at keeping records and gives them to you when she does find them.

Believe me it could be a lot worse!!

mlbltd5678's picture

yeah, it could be a lot worse. I learned early on to get everything we need ourselves. I went to city hall to get a certified birth certificate. My husband requested a replacement Social security card, and we got a copy of his shot record. Now everytime I bring him to the Dr and he gets a shot I always just have them make a copy of his shot record then. This way when I need to know when the last one was and whether things are up to date I can look at my own files. I've learned that you can't rely on bm for anything. Nothing beats the time she asked me for a copy of his birth certificate to sign him up for kindergarten. She had full custody at the time and still didn't have it.

Sassy's picture

For some reason she is especially annoying today. I have trouble with stupid people and with being disorganized-so u can imagine how she makes me feel.

Be kinder than necessary to everyone! We all have our battles.