A new niece or nephew on the way.

BIL2 told my DW that they are pregnant with "their" second child.

I truly hope this one is actually his. Another cheat baby from his wife would gut him. The cheat baby epiphany with the first one just about killed him.

smh

Everyone knows but everyone is all forgiving of her 6yr affair the whole time she and BIL2 dated and have been married up until our niece was about 3. That was when BIL2 caught her and figured out that his daughter isn't his.

Our niece just started Kindergarten.

Except me. I cannot forgive that kind of characterless crap. I suppose that is baggage from my own first marriage to a cheating skank.

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Wow thats so many breaking if trust issues

I don't know how he's even looking past all that distrust.

my husband found out his exwife was cheating on him with her ex high school sweetheart before they even separated and during the divorce when she was playing the poor me single woman of divorce crap.

after the divorce papers were final she married that guy in secret whilst kids were in school, skids didn't know bio mum was even dating.

after that no way did my husband have any care or concern for her after all of that. But eldest sd on biomums instruction was repeatedly messaging my husband how exwife thought her marriage was about to end etc. apparently my husband was meant to care

it took about a year for my husband to tell then sd23 enough and how inappropriate of her it was to be messaging this crap to him when he is happily married and building a future with me and our then 2 toddlers, after that it was crickets from her.

for some who can't see through this objectively, having another kid is a twisted was to bring them closer. It doesn't address the marriage and distrust issues

My IL clan suffers from a genetic case of Ostrich syndrome.

Everyone buries their head in the dirt, ignores the obvious at the surface level, then backstabs each other, usually not even the one doing the bad crap, depending on which family member is in the shitbird seat at any given time. Then they all get butt hurt and offended when it is pointed out to them.

The target of the moment is usually a distraction that the one who should be confronted receives a get out of jail free card from.

Fortuneately, my DW is the family mutant who avoided that gene.

Though she is intensely effected by the family drama. It breaks her heart. And mine. That my give a shit exists at all is because of how it impacts my bride.

The sad thing is that with the exception of my SIL, my ILs are all hard working decent people. SIL is a disgusting crook. SIL's DH is decent. Why he puts up with her is beyond me. BIL1's DW is a manipulative nasty person with an unfounded superiority complex. BIL2's DW is a cheating idiot.

SIL's two kids and all 4 of BIL1's kids are drinking the low performance high superiority complex Kool-Aid. BIL2's kid the jury is still out on. Sadly our eldest IL clan niece (BIL1's eldest) could have an amazing life. SHe is smart and a hard worker. But.... at the last minute she has apparently decided to go down the same path as everyone else in their rural marginal town/community has done for a century or more. We had such hopes for her.

I have learned from the STalker community. I can't care more than they care. But... I do. Because my DW does.