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what does yuck expect dh to do

purpledaisies's picture

Ss16 is not going to school. He has 8 unexcused missed days. Yuck called dh last to get him to help but everything he suggested there was an excuse. He finally told her that if she wasnt going to do any that he suggested then why call him. Dh even said he can live with us and he will make sure he is in school.

I asked dh why in tje world is she not going in his room to wake him up and stay on his ass still he gets up and goes. Yucks excuse is that she is helping her aunt with her day care and is not home at that time
Ok well thats fine but she has to do something b/c this is working with letting ss16 be on his own as he cant be trusted to get up.

I suggested she get him up when she does and make him get ready and out the dor when she does and he can wait at day care til school instead of leaving him on his own. Nope she wamts him to sleep. So what excatly does yuck want dh to do??

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purpledaisies's picture

I know. I just dont understand why she seems to think she can leave and let him get up on his own obviously its not working. Dh asked her when he goes to bed. She said no one can make him go to bed. That says all right there.

Jsmom's picture

If he is 16, there is no truancy...He will be considered a drop out after so many days. Sounds like you need to go to court and maybe it will wake her up. Dad has rights until 18, this may actually work to that advantage.

purpledaisies's picture

Nope not here i know of a wimsn that got fined heavly for her dd not being in school and she was 16/17 at the time.