update to yuck is a moron...no I don't let things go.
I texted dh about him not calling yuck on her games and bulling him into calling her. I told him that when he 'forgets' to call her out it makes me feel that yuck still has his balls!
he said he will set it straight the next time he talks to her. I told him I hope he doesn't 'forget' again!.
He said I said I'm sorry now let it go.
I told him I wanted to make sure we were on the same page.
he then called me. We have it worked out but yea he better not forget.
I know that this is a little thing but little things start to add up and i refuse to let yuck get in my marriage!
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It seems to me if you're
It seems to me if you're picking on him to "not forget", that she's already "in" your marriage. In your marriage or not, she's a part of your life if you're married to him.
And if he brings up this little thing at some point in the future, it will seem very petty. And BM will know she's under his/your skin.
I disagree b/c my goal was to
I disagree b/c my goal was to make sure dh understood that when he does these things I feel as though yuck still has his balls and I got that point across.
I know how you feel. I am
I know how you feel. I am sick of SO standing back and not sticking up for himself/kids/me regarding anything related to BM's. I ask him if he is afraid of her. ALL men in this siutation are afraid that if they piss them off too much that they will take off with their kids or with hold the little vistation they do get. They need to learn there are law's and BM will get into trouble if she does that. They live in fear over these women.