:sick: My ss BM hurt my relationship b4 it even statred back when me and my dh began to date i went on his myspace and saw he had two albums dedicated to BM he had pic after pic of them kissing the wedding the baby shower and tear after tear ran down my face while seeing this i called him and he said he was sorry he just kept those becuase he was ashamed about the divorce and didnt want nosey friends and family members in his buisness because they had just signed the papers but had been seperated for like 6 months at the time but anyway i moved in and while in the shower one day BM comes over to pic up SS and i walk out and catch him giving her her birth certificate and important things she had left it just hurt me alot to know he still had some of her things but i understand because she was living at a friends house up until then and had no room for her stuff but it still hurt me once he even let her just walk into my kitchen and start making SS a sandwich she just walked into my house talk about bold so i told her you never step foot in here without my permission and you are only allowed to put his bags in your car and leave and you and my husband oly talk about the child if its not about the SS dont bother talking to him or me i was pissed anywaws and somtimes his family even compares me like when we go over his moms house she is like why dont you clean my dishes like the the other girl his sisters are like why dont you cook more like her but yet they say they like me alot more than her this is really starting to get to me and when i talk to DH about it he is very understanding the day i dicovered the pictures he deleted them and put pics of me and took me to meet his family immediatly and he always tells me dont be ridiculous you are everyting i ever wanted you are beautiful and you make me 100 times better than she ever could and i love you she is a part of my past and you are my future and that makes me happy he really treats me like a queen and anything i say that will make me happy he does it and even though i feel this way about BM i always treat her with respect infront of SS but i really wish she was not apart of our lives my SS is an amazing kid he even calls me mom and we are going to have another kid soon it just makes me sad that he got to share the beautiful experinse of having his first child with someone else i just wish he can have the same excitiment for our new baby everything is going so fast i just graduated college early we got married and are now having a child and i just started to think back and get sad i just wish BM was never in the picture i am such a good mother she never deserved such a good man and a precious kid i feel so lucky for them i just wish i could get the BM gouhst out of my life sorry for this being so long i just really need to vent please reply if you are going to give good advice i really dont want to hear anything negitive if so i will remove it thanks : )