DH has really been dropping the ball lately. Not only for me (see my previous post about losing my beloved dog) but for our family. I've been working extra hours, both at work and the home studio and been picking up all the slack. Example: watching ss on my days off, doing ALL the housework, trying to de-clutter our lives by purging useless possessions (which has been a fight since dh hoards) and handling all the day to day extras. So after working until 9:30 last night I come home to: a sink full of dishes, clothes dumped on my bed, clothes in the dryer not folded (dh's excuse for this is "he doesn't know where anything goes" :jawdrop: ) and unresponded to emails regarding several high dollar items I am attempting to sell on Craigslist (these items are dh's and he said he would deal with it). So I am at a freaking loss right now. My patience is running out with this man. He may as well be the same lazy asshole I was married to before. The only difference is, I knew I couldn't count on my first husband so I learned to do everything on my own. But my douche dh reassured me when we were courting and first got married that he "would always be there to help me, just simply ask." Uh huh. I did that. Repeatedly. I even made you a "honey do" list as you requested. Guess how much of it is done? ZERO! And it just keeps growing. You know, come to think of it dh used to complain that bm said he was lazy and didn't have his priorities straight when they were together. Beginning to think she was on to something there. . .