This is really just an observation but all these wretched BMs and their continual crapfests got me to thinking. I know. Slow down, Princessmofo before you hurt yourself. But they are bitter, insensitive, jealous, deceitful, malicious, plotting, trashy, rude, obnoxious, revolting, unnerving, lousy, shameless, treacherous, degenerate, knavish and just plain evil. And yet they continue to insinuate themselves in our DH/SO/BF/FDH's lives. What baffles my mind is that 90% or more of these BMs initiated the divorces! So if you didn't want him anymore what is your freaking problem? Move on, please. By all means go back to the Vodka bottle you crawled out of and leave me and my dh in peace. It seems they can't stand Not calling the shots. And unfortunately they use the old standard playbook of "it's in the child's best interest" blah blah blah so it's necessary for BM to be there. But of course I could be wrong. . . }:) Would love to hear your thoughts on this.