Apparently she put dh down as a reference when she applied for student loans 6 yes ago. Ya know, when she enrolled in college even though she didn't have a high school diploma or GED...?!?!

Surprise surprise, she didn't graduate....didn't complete her GED and defaulted on her loans. Shocking. Maybe Sallie mae should have called her references 6 years ago before they gave her the money....hose is out of the barn now.

They asked dh if he knew where she was and if he could pass along a message to her. His response....no, I haven't hear from her in over 5 year and when you out do find her can you pass along a message for me? Tell her she's 10 grand behind in child support and that her daughter would appreciate a call since she hasn't heard from her in years.

But it got us in a discussion on what total pieces of shit both BMS are. Christmas just passed....no call, no card no nothing from either bm. SS recently had a birthday. No call, no card...nothing. I mean, you'd think Christmas and birthdays would be the two obligatory occasions that any mom, no matter how selfish, would feel compelled to acknowledge. Get a card, throw a 20 dollar gift card in it and send it off. Make a free phone call.