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Skids will b with us for 13 days. Have been in the house less than two minutes and SO is already telling SS he can go on computer games.... Here we go

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ugh. I know how you feel. I

ugh. I know how you feel. I decided today is my first day of letting go. I have NO idea how to do that, but I'm going to try! I figured out that when I care, think, or otherwise have a reaction to raising someone else's kids, it won't end well. Because ultimately, I really have no say and he's going to do what he thinks is best anyway. If they grow up and eat with their hands as adults, I just won't sit at the same table in the restaurants

SO and I are usually on the

SO and I are usually on the same page but it's "the holidays" and I guess to him that means kids do what they want. They have been here less than an hour and SO and I have already had an argument.

I'm hiding in my room. And I

I'm hiding in my room. And I don't even want to! Why do I get so mad? Why does it make my skin crawl when he seems to want them to be happy at all costs, and basically I"m on my own? blech. What are your arguments about?

We just argued because SS was

We just argued because SS was jumping around in the living room and knocked over one of my nativity glass figures. Lucky it didn't break. I told SS that's what happens when you are jumping around in the house be more careful. SS said sorry. Should have been over. SO comes out of the room and tells me to relax and SS is just excited.

We got into it about him disregarding what I say in front of the kids. I hate that shit. He said sorry but was still trying to argue his point. I told him I wasn going to fight about it. I'm right and walked away. Blah gonna be a long two weeks.

Well I did a couple of shots

Well I did a couple of shots and feel better now. Lol gonna have to stop by the liquor store tomorrow.

You have my deepest

You have my deepest sympathy.

DH is going to take care of his own stinkin' kids, right? You haven't been dragooned into being the guardian of his biological wonderfulness? Otherwise, I have one word for you: HOTEL.

You have my sympathy,

You have my sympathy, especially in regard to the BSwhere he undermines you in front of the skids.

I'm so sorry sweetie! I wish

I'm so sorry sweetie! I wish I could take you for drinks and mani pedis to get you out of there! I would be freaking out if I'd just gotten a skid delivery for Christmas break!

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