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NachoMama's picture

Submitted by NachoMama on Fri, 04/02/2010 - 7:23pm

I hate that everytime my DH and I make a purchase ( no matter how big or small) the skids have to run and tell the BMs who in turn try to use that as some sort of leverage. "Well you can afford this or that...maybe I will just take you to court for more CS!" How do these hags know how we got the things that we have? They have no idea what I bring home nor do they have any clue how much MY mother helps us out when we need something that we can't afford! I wish they would just mind their own damn business and stay the hell out of my life!!!

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Torn's picture

Submitted by Torn on Fri, 04/02/2010 - 8:45pm

It's just jealously Wink

~Never interrupt your enemy when she is making a mistake.~

~No-one can make you feel inferior without your consent.~

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Submitted by ohnoyoudidnt on Fri, 04/02/2010 - 9:02pm

Yep, SS tells BM EVERYTHING...even how much we spend to get gas...

NachoMama's picture

Submitted by NachoMama on Sat, 04/03/2010 - 9:54am

SS11s BM said the same to me! DH is just with you for your money...it is obvious she thinks a make a mint which is so off base!!! But I let her think it because I know it annoys the hell out of her!!!

****I can do bad all by myself****

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Fri, 04/02/2010 - 10:38pm

Yes, I lived that BS for 9yrs...I got sick of it...therefore, no more skid at my house...(I don't want anyone complaining, we lived out of the country and she came 1 time in 4yrs to visit)...of course, idiot DH wanted to show her the house, although I was 100% against it and had booked a weekend hotel for us all...of course, the little witch asked for our address as she left the house because "she wanted to write him a letter"...the crap that these BMs put their kids through...at the end, that's yet another reason she raised it...I will NO LONGER tolerate it...

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Submitted by Snowbunny on Thu, 05/20/2010 - 9:56am

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srangel112's picture

Submitted by srangel112 on Sat, 04/03/2010 - 10:24am

While we also don't make CS payments she does, it's funny how things used to get to her. We bought a new cellphone which the kids call the "J" phone because daddy's name starts with "J" instead of what it really is an iPhone! We bought the second phone so that the new number wouldn't be known to her so she couldn't interrupt our daily lives. Then the car they owned together was returned to the dealer and I cosigned for his new car. She was livid knowing that he had better things with me in his life. Eventually we turned the tables and joked to the kids, maybe you should tell your mom we got a new .... Then it became a non-issue!

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Submitted by smith21 on Sat, 04/03/2010 - 10:38am

I hate how..I work my butt off 12hrs a day six days a week..then come home to cook and clean...ready to break down from exhaustion and then hearing SD say "thats my daddy's house...thats my daddys computer." No darling...I PAY THE BILLS TOO!!!! now shut it.