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"my mom says cool people cuss"

msg1986's picture

So this weekend were driving to dinner and Ss is talking to my brother in the back seat. Out of nowhere Ss4 says "my mom cusses all the time but it's okay because she told me only cool people cuss." it was one of those "...ooookay" moments. What is up with some Bm's? honestly??

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msg1986's picture

wow, I totally didn't see that... that's disgusting, so she's basically telling her child she's a mistake? Grrreat parenting. yikes.

Biomomof2's picture

Maybe, maybe not. My son was not planned. My nickname for him has always been boo-boo. Upon the divorce my ex decided to tell the kid that I call him that because I consider him a mistake, an accident, and daddy will never call him that. So guess what? My son was 5 and came up to me to ask if I really never wanted him and his nickname is because of that. I told him he is the best little accident I have ever had. His nickname is boo-boo because sometimes wonderfulness comes out of mistakes, accidents or dreams we never knew we had. I explained that mommy didn't know if she wanted a second kid, and now I am blessed with him. Totally took the power away from my ex. And now, my son is almost 8 and he brags that he is his mamas best mistake and mistakes aren't bad!! I even turned it into an explain of trying your best and not getting a 100 on a test. Mistakes aren't always a bad thing, wonderful things can come!!!!

oldone's picture

I know we are never to badmouth the BM but I could not let that stand.

Possibly replies:

"Effin' right" - no

"Your mom if an effing idiot" no

"That's stupid" - okay

msg1986's picture

I vote #2!!! lol jk!! I just looked at him and said, "no no honey, it's not cool to cuss, okay?" he replied, "welll, ya know msg1986 I tell her not to but she always just says everyone cool cusses..." if you could only hear him too, it's was cute. I think he gets it though... I hope!!!

msg1986's picture

WTF!? you can sleep with anyone??? this is insane to me, what if the child was in the situation of someone trying to like touch/molest her? she would think it's okay because they are friends! omg. and to kill yourself??? some people really shouldn't the capability to have kids... just wow.

tryingmom's picture

Lordamercy!!! BM needs to reign in her coolness a bit!!!

BM swears around the skids, also overshares personal information. Like BF/Fiancé of the moment makes her completely satisfied. :jawdrop: Nothing like hearing that out of a 10 yr old. DH told me later that considering that this relationship is in it's early stages that satisfaction will wane and she won't be satisfying anyone soon enough, it's her MO.

Shook's picture

You Fing are you tart CUNextTuesday.
Right, now about parenting...rinse skids mouth out with f'ing soap? }:)

learningallthetime's picture

My BS6 has a new SM (Ish, she calls herself that, but just the GF) - one day BS6 swore, then said "SM swears all the time, she says that is their language where she is from" eerrrr she is from New England...last I checked that was part of the USA too and spoke American?! I mean, I am from a different country and would never use that as an excuse - he is being raised in the USA and needs to know the cultural norms here!