This was our weekend to have SS. Friday night DH and I go to meet BM and her husband to pick SS up and as soon as she pulls up the first words out of her mouth is "SS has been sick he didn't got to school today and he needs a bath because he was too weak to take one today." DH and I said ok fine we'll handle it. As soon as SS gets in the car with us he's magically feeling better and talking up a storm. He was fine all weekend we did give him some cough meds because he was coughing some but not to bad, no big deal he had not temp. or anything. He was even running around acting like a normal wild child with some other kids at a samll BDay party we went to Sat. night. Well low and behold as soon as he gets back to BM's last night he's all sick again and needs to go to the doc. (according to BM). His temp was 99.2, that's not even a freaking fever!! SS told BM his ear hurt but he couldn't tell her or DH if it hurt inside or outside. BM wanted DH to take the day off work today and take SS to the doc he flat out told her no cause he tought SS was faking because he just didn't want to go to school. Needless to say she wasn't to happy about that. I say all this but I'll feel bad if he really is sick, but I'm more inclined to believe he just doesn't want to go to school and he's playing BM and she's falling for it.