So SO and I have been away since early Friday morning and are just getting back into town after a weekend away for my college roommates wedding.

It was absolutely gorgeous, the food was amazing and the bill for it all is probably more than 3 years of salary. All my close friends from college were there and even though we've all graduated and are functioning adults-college days come back pretty quick and we all can't seem to keep it appropriate for more than 5 minutes no matter how fancy the diggs.

BM2 started blowing my phone up about needing money on Friday ever though she was just paid CP on Thursday. I told her SO and I were away for the weekend, he was driving and couldn't answer the phone and we are out of town so whatever it is if it's not an emergency will have to wait unti Monday. Not dealing with this money grubbing BS which is what this is all starting to come to with her. If my kids want something and we can't afford it-I can't go blow someone else up and expect them to take care of it on top of regular child support. Sorry.

BM1 again, was supposed to pick SS11 up from school. Texted Friday morning asking me to make alt plans for his pick up (she knew we were going out of town). I already did because.....BM. I told her to call and make arraignments with SO and I'm disengaging from her. She's on the list.

Yet again, we never heard a word out of her all weekend.