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Submitted by missangie1978 on Wed, 06/06/2007 - 2:58pm

Now that we're going for full custody BM is swearing that she's living in a homeless Shelter and not with her ex. That doesn't make sense, why would she ask to have her 8 week summer visitation with SS if she's in a homeless shelter with her other 3 kids and why would she think that we'd allow SS to live in a homeless shelter for 2 months?

Now she's also stating that she's going to move out of state again to her cousins. She is so unstable that we can't figure out what she's thinking.

With the amount of money this is going to take our wedding has been put on hold for now. I'm so sick of her and having to revolve our life around her crazy antics.

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Submitted by Cruella (not verified) on Wed, 06/06/2007 - 7:25pm

How can there be ANY expectations of SS going to a homeless shelter for 2 months. That is sooo out there. BM is Crazy and selfish. That child needs a stable home and stable parents.

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Submitted by Chocoholic on Wed, 06/06/2007 - 8:01pm

IF she is living in a shelter, I can't imagine any court granting her overnights with the kids when they would be much better off in a stable home. They also won't go for all of the moving around.... I know its hard, but rest assured that her true colors will come out soon enough.

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Submitted by Nymh on Wed, 06/06/2007 - 8:15pm

Let her continue to prove how much of a flake she is. She's practically handing over the rights to these children. I feel very sorry for them for having a mother whom they can have no faith in. I am so sorry that you're having to put your wedding on hold! That's not fair! Sad

*~So sayeth Nymh~*

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Submitted by missangie1978 on Thu, 06/07/2007 - 10:51am

she now keeps leaving messages that she's moving out of the state again and that she wants to keep the visitation as is, however Fiancee and I don't feel safe with SS going to her for 8 weeks in the summer.

The problem is that when she lived in Vegas after having run away from her ex she had him come down and visit her. Don't ask what she was thinking because I have no idea.

If she moves out of state again how are we to know whether or not she has her ex come there as well and what happens if SS is there and she and ex get into it?

I'm so scared for SS - he's finally getting over his anger issues, catching up in school (he could barely read when we got him and he's 8, he's now really reading well), he's learning manners, and doing chores etc... he's finally got a stable home and BM wants to ruin that by trying to take him for the summer when she doesn't even have a job, money or anything