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Thanksgiving Vacation with the Thanksless, Spoiled Ingrates.

MarriedaBallessWonder's picture

So Saturday we are headed to Cancun for the week of Thanksgiving. I know most people think I should be doing back-flips with joy. Well, I would be expect..... the kids are coming along to ruin it. I will also be stuck with them for 3 miserable weeks as the week in Cancun they should be with their horsefaced BM.

Stepshit(15) lives to ruin happy times. Every single vacation or dinner out he purposely ruins it by constantly complaining, kicking the table, calling everyone one names, acting sullen and pissed, putting his head down, refusing to eat...... If we are somewhere he doesn't like - like the beach he will start pissing and moaning... I hate this! How many more days? Why did you bring me here? Take me home now! This has gone on for 9 misery filled year.

I begged my H not to take the asshole, but my H being the guilty Daddy he is says he cannot "abandon" him. Puh-leaze! So, even the couselor said that if Stepshit acts up this time, he should not be taken on another vacation.

On to Stepshit(18) the gay pervert. I will bet you $100 that he will be trolling for wang the entire time. When he was 15 we went to Norway. He put an ad on Yahoo singles looking to meet up with gay men while we where there. I had a feeling something was up with his texting and whatnot while we were there. When we got back I found the yahoo page with 200 pages of perverts from all over the World wanting to hook up with him. He had been posing naked on a cam. I didn't see the pics, but could tell from the comments. I sent to pages to his BD and BM, but of course the did nothing.... as usual.

Anyway, the good news is I get to wear all of my gorgeous resort clothes and relax at the beach and eat to my hearts content for the week.

Gooble gooble!

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bi's picture

that completely sucks! i would rather stay home alone than go anywhere in the world with sd20. i'm already pissed off anticipating her usual barging in on Christmas morning to interrupt MY time with MY kids. we have Christmas with her family a couple weeks before. but that's not good enough. she has to drag whatever bf she has along and ruin my day EVERY FUCKING TIME.

tweetybird74's picture

"When we got back I found the yahoo page with 200 pages of perverts from all over the World"

you said twice in your posting "gay" & "pervert" together. I take it you have an issue with gay men.

DaizyDuke's picture

Oh boy, could see this coming a mile a way... some words just can't be said on this site without ruffling feathers.

Anywho... on to your original point. THIS SUCKS! Don't your stepshits have friends? I'm surprised at their ages, they would even WANT to go on vacation with their dad and SM. Yuck. I guess just ignore them as much as possible and eat, drink and be merry and drink. did I say drink?

Have fun!

MarriedaBallessWonder's picture

Thanks!

Neither one of them has any friends. Well the 18 y/o does now since college, but the 15 y/o has zero friends. The only thing he does is eat, play video games and watch tv. He is also 90 lbs overweight.

The older one lived on line until he left for college this fall.

I hope this is the very last vacation we take with either one of them. It's very stressful. The also don't appreciate anything. They've been all over the World and all they do/did was complain to get back home to their computers. They suck.

MarriedaBallessWonder's picture

I have no problem with him being gay. I have a problem with him trolling for sex where ever he can.

If he were straight trolling for inappropriate sex I would call him a pervert too.

This is the same young man who orders sex toys online and then leaves them lying around in the living room. He's a pervert.

He's off to college now. But he still has no boundaries when it comes to decency. Gay or straight.

mrs.g's picture

i feel so bad for you!! this summer my dh family wanted to take ss5 to newfoundland for 2 weeks. i made it clear last time we went with them was baaaaad! (i was called my bm name the entire time!!) anyways so dh payed for ss to go to newfoundland with mil and fil so i said, in november im going on vacay! me and dh fly out to cancun on monday!! to an adults only resort!! next time, book ur tickets and the. "oops its adults only.... guess skids cant come"

MarriedaBallessWonder's picture

Have fun in Cancun! I'm soooo jealous you get to go to an Adult's only resort!

Have a drink for me!

MarriedaBallessWonder's picture

Well, we are back from Cancun. It was nice being at the gorgeous resort and spending time with my Hubby, but being with the kids was exactly what I'd feared.

The youngest Stepshit was for the most part a miserable surly asshole who only came out of his room to stuff his fat face several times a day at the all you can eat buffets. He also drank all the sodas in the frige every single day.

The older, gay one was very pleasant to be around - when he was around us. Like I warned his Dad, he would be cruising for men day and night. That is exactly what he did. We would only see him a few times a day when I insisted he at least meet us for dinner. There is a night club at the resort and he would go out and stay out until 4:00 or 5:00 am and the club closed at 2:00.

Anyway, this will be the last "family" vacation we take with them. I'm tired of spending thousands of dollars to be taken for granted and used.

I actually adore the older stepson, but it's time for him to take his own vacays. It seemed like Dad was footing the bill for him to have a giant, gay sex, frat party.

Oh yeah, I was sure to make a big deal of thanking my DH when at dinners or when we were driving home. The kids never once said thank you. Not once.