swearing VERY loudly right now
OH just texted me. SD12 just talked to him, apparently BM is working Mother's day night (if that makes sense LOL) so they will NOT be going home early as I requested, they will in fact be staying the f(*cking night.
So, no time at all with me and my kids, no dinner out, not a freaking second of the day is going to be what *I* want.
He promised me the evening, a meal out just us without the snotty brats, because she refused to take them early (Sat night) So, no breakfast, no lunch, and now no f*cking dinner.
I am SOOOOOO pissed off right now.
He had better spend all freaking day at my feet grovelling and ignoring all calls for his attention from those little sh*Its.
(ok I am being unfair to them, but they will spend the day trying to make it all about how upset THEY are, and he will pander to making THEM happy because it's all so unfair to them, which means taking them and spending time with them) I just wanted ONE day to have the people that I love with me and to feel loved, is that too much!
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I would take my kids and go
I would take my kids and go out to dinner. Leave him at home with SK's.
I'm guessing it means "other"
I'm guessing it means "other" as in Other Half
So, let him deal with his
So, let him deal with his kids and you and yours go celebrate the way you want? ((hugs)) It may be an over simplified solution that isn't feasible for you. I don't know, but I'm sorry to hear that you and your children won't get to celebrate the way you'd all like.
"just make a special meal and
"just make a special meal and be all super happy and wonderful and by the time it is over with he will be feeling so awful and so in awe of your graceful attitude that he will probably be plotting ways to make it up to you by bedtime." i really really like that idea.
Dumbass here hasnt been w/ skids on mother's day for the last two years. skids without fail buy me a card ahead of time and surprise me with it that morning. <3 they usually wait 'til sunday night to get her one to take back w/ them... }:)
i'm sorry luchay, i know you had your heart set on celebrating a certain way... (((hugs)))
Luchay, your DH better have
Luchay, your DH better have his kids do something special for THEIR SM (there's "mother" in stepmother too) on Mothers Day. And hubby needs to make up a holiday just for you when the skids are gone. It'll be called Luchay Day! I never celebrate my b-day on the day. I do it when I know we're all free from drama. That's the best gift anyone can give me on any special occasion. A day of quiet where BM has no mention in.
And hubby better do something happy for you this Father's Day too in memorial
Make plans with your kids and
Make plans with your kids and just GO! That's what I'd do. NO skids, NO husband, just you and the kids.
I would just make plans with
I would just make plans with my own kids and get the heck out of there.
DH pulled this crap on me a few years ago. His CO states for Mother's & Father's day, the child is with the parent the entire weekend.
So we made plans for Mother's Day one year. A much needed romantic getaway, just the two of us after a very stressful time. The day before we were going to take off Uberskank called him and said "You're taking her this weekend. I've made plans and she is not coming." When he said, nope....sorry we already have plans since she's supposed to be with you all weekend. Uberskank came back with "All of the other dads (for her two other kids) are taking their children and you're taking yours!"
I told DH that if he folded that he would lose whatever little bit of respect I had left for him. He whined that his kid would feel like no one wuvvvvvvssssss her. I said too bad. We already have plans and she is not included. Do not do this to me.
He caved. She came over. I was pissed. Turns out there were no plans, except the family going to the beach. Her sisters were with their mother and the little brat didn't want to go. I never forgave DH for being such a chump about this.
Go out with your kids and enjoy your day.
I remember how angry I was
I remember how angry I was for you Shaman, when you brought this up before. OMG I just would've been LIVID had I been in your shoes.
DH is supposed to have stepdevil14 for Father's Day next month and his birthday in July. I don't think he's going to force her to visit with him since their relationship is so strained and she is NOT going to be happy that we're showing up tonight to her awards thingie at school, but I honestly will take my DD15 and leave if he does invite SD for his birthday.
DD15 will be here from June 25 till Aug 21st. That is MY time with her and I won't allow SD to ruin it. And this Christmas, instead of going to Detroit since mom and I had a huge fallout last year, I'm just flying DD down here to Denver for the week.
If DH and SD have "made up" and she's visiting, she will not be here while DD is here or DD and I will simply take the chinchillas and my cat and leave for the week!
Oh we had a similar one of
Oh we had a similar one of few months ago. It was made out that kids HAD to come because BM'S babysitter cancelled last minute, she has to work, blah blah blah. So we cancelled our date night and had them. Turns out the babysitter was BM'S dad and he was going to visit someone and planned to take skids with. SD didn't want to go so she conned OH into us having them. I was not happy when i found out the truth!
The trouble is i want OH around. The skids wouldn't be a problem if they could just join in and try to be happy, but they will carry on and make everyone miserable.
Oh well, i will live with it. As you do.