This weekend we had my dd8's sleepover birthday party. I made up the loot bags for all the kids, the only one I took special care to put a particular purple item in was dd's - it's her favourite colour. The rest all just got whatever random colour came to hand as I did their bags. But each bag (except ss's) had the same items - the same sweets/chocolates and a mini nail polish and lip gloss.

Sunday morning I had to get my two dd's made up and hair done for a dancing thing - so I was feeding 11 kids, packing up all the kids stuff so they were ready to be picked up AND doing full hair and make up on my two as well as getting 11 costumes sorted and in the car, making sure we had all the shoes and tights and ballet undies etc etc etc. it was pretty full on around here (not even mentioning the 9 screaming hyper kids running about the place LOL)

So as the kids were being picked up and time was getting on I asked SD13 to hand out the loot bags to the kids as they left - they were all in a larger bag, named and none of the kids had seen them or had access to them - I made them up on Thursday night and put them in my office til Sunday morning.

I finish off the girls and head off at 10am to drop them off, there are still a few kids left to be picked up (OH was here obviously) and SS10 and SD13, who is still giving out the bags. I was rushed or I would have thought it through better.

I dropped off my girls and got home about an hour and a half later, and SD13 is sitting on the sofa with the large bag, rifling through it and eating, ss10 is on the other sofa with his bag, instead of the girly stuff he got a whoopee cushion so he was happy LOL

I grabbed the bag and put it away in the office - it only had my girls prizes and loot bags in it. I had a quick look inside the bags.... and yes you guessed it - dd8's fave purple lip gloss has been changed over and there is now a blue one in there, the two funsize chocs are gone, some of the other sweets are gone and there were some eyeball chocolates (it was a Monster High party) each bag had two, there was now only one. DD10's bag - was missing a few sweets and both the eyeballs.

I was PISSED off. I had some spare chocolates and sweets and I evened things out so both bags had the same stuff in them (bonus of them not having seen what was in the other kids bags!!)

I mentioned to my OH that their bags had been tampered with and half the sweets/chocs were missing and someone had changed the colour of dd's lip gloss. *crickets* from him.

Bloody fucking thieving SD gets away with it again.

Later they were outside and I was tidying upstairs, and I found her loot bag on the sofa up there, inside were ALL the chocolate wrappers, 3 uneaten eyeballs and my dd's purple lip balm. As well - she had half filled the bag with sweets out of the bowl I had on the table downstairs... Greedy little cow. I took back the eyeballs and the lip balm - replaced that with the blue one.

But STILL no consequences or even a discussion with her by OH.

Just stick that freaking head in the sand YET AGAIN honey.

But she KNOWS I know.... At least I have that.

Just pisses me off SO much.

Alos yesterday was the first anniversary of my fathers passing, so it was a crappy day anyway