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Ug... She's been calling all day

Last-Wife's picture

Submitted by Last-Wife on Mon, 03/08/2010 - 6:05pm

I banned Loca Grande on February 19 from ever calling me again. She finally pushed me over the edge... The last two weeks of silence have been bliss!

She has called me 10 times today- with a new number, but I know it's her cause Princess gave me the number so I could avoid it. (Yeah, Princess!)

WTH could be so important that she keeps calling, and won't just leave a dang message?! She knows I'm with students from 7:30- 3:30, and then I have no cell service for the 40 minute drive home...

And honestly, I'm afraid my curiosity will get the best of me, and I'll cave-in and answer...

I will not, I will not, I will not...

I hope.

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joey's picture

Submitted by joey on Mon, 03/08/2010 - 6:27pm

I have 2 step kids 14 son 7 daughter they drive me nuts.I love them but I can not handle them anymore my wife does not support me she lets them do whatever they want and me and my wife got two babies together.the dad of these kids lives in a different state and owes about ten thousand in child support,I can't even run my house how I want to,my wife thinks its all about pleasing the kids and not her own husband,these kids dad sees them once every three or four months,doesn't not provide a thing,I'm ready to call it quits,me and my got two different ways of raising kids I do not want my babies to be like her kids at all,the stepson tryed to stuff my dvd player down his pants and steal it from my room,I've had enough now.

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Submitted by mdeleh on Sat, 03/13/2010 - 9:35pm

wow I understand about having different ideas about raising kids. My bf's two girls 7 and 12 are kind of like your step kids. It is so hard when you dont see eye to eye. I have tryed taking tv away not allowing them on the computer or play with frinds it works for a short time but if one parent wont up hold there part then its so easy for the kids to take control kids know how to make it happen to i think its in their dna from birth to late teens. dont give up two kids with your wife thats something. If you love her fight like hell to stay and make it work. easier said than done im sure and i dont have much to go off myself only been in my situation for a year

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Submitted by herewegoagain on Tue, 03/09/2010 - 8:59am

Don't answer, don't answer, don't answer...there is nothing she needs to say to you...if she's not calling your husband it's because whatever it is is so petty, that she knows he'll either not answer or ask her why the heck she called for such stupidity...don't answer and remember that the best way to drive her nuts is NOT to answer...you didn't marry her, you didn't have kids with her, you don't need to worry about her...

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Submitted by lynneranne on Tue, 03/09/2010 - 9:06am

I agree with herewegoagain... DONT ANSWER!!! Be strong. Have your husband call her and sort things out... Smile

Life isn't about the days you have, its about what you do with the days you have.

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Submitted by Denial on Tue, 03/09/2010 - 10:04am

Everyone's right - anything she would be calling you about is probably to be petty - especially since she's called 10 times without leaving a message. If it were an emergency, she would call your DH or leave a message.

That means she actually wants to speak with you live to get the satisfaction of hearing your voice as she's ruining your day. DON'T LET HER!!!

Be strong, every time you get the urge to answer - just keep in mind, that's what she wants - don't let her win!!!! Don't give her what she wants!