Thanks to Loca Grande, our week had an interesting start. She refused to bring Lazy Boye 15 home Sunday afternoon, and wanted us to come get him. Loghead said that would be fine, he was happy to help, as long as when he arrived at her house she had the money she owed him... (Before Christmas, she promised to pay for Lazy Boye's letterman's jacket. When it came in, she didn't have the money, so she asked Loghead to pay for it so he could ahve the jacket for Christmas, and she would pay Loghead back on the first of the month, her payday.) Well, I knew that wouldn't happen, but no one asked me, and he went ahead and paid it, so skid wouldn't feel left out when the rest of the team where wearing their coats.

So it's been a battle to get the money. Sunday afternoon, she's like, "What are you talking about? I never said I'd pay you back, you said you'd pay for it to help me, i don't owe you anything." Lazy Boye is in the background, arguing, "I heard you say you'd pay dad back. he's been out of work, he can't afford it!"

I just motioned to Loghead to drop it. He looks at me, and says into the phone, "Fine. Forget it. Don't pay me back. You've already shown your son who you are by this behavior. Just know in the future when you promise the kids things, and then you fall through on it, I will let you crash. Even if that does mean hurting them. It's not worth protecting you anymore."

Her husband ended up driving him to ball practice.

Monday morning, I get a bizzare text from her, telling me to "f%^& off." Well! That's really not like her, but can be like her mental illness, so I contact her husband and let him know something might be up. i was dumb enough to engage her, and texted "I haven't talked to you in 2 weeks. Don't know why you are telling me to f off."

She texted back that that was a forwarded text from Lazy boye that morning. She says she doesnt know why he is mad. Sends several frantic texts about how she is fed up with it, "we win" and maybe she will see the kids when they are adults.

Turns out the stupid woman accidentally sent two messages to Lazy Boye that morning that said really shitty things about Loghead and the money and the jacket, and even made the comment about how the skids are "such f$%^ers" for treating her that way. (They only treat her the way they have seen her treat others...)

Well, that pissed Lazy Boye 15 off, and he did send her a text, telling her to f off, and that he never wanted to see her again.

The three of us sat down last night. Lazy Boye said he knows she's sick (mentally) and thinks she sent him texts on purpose. He said he can't deal with it any more, and when she was ready to grow up, maybe he'd see her again. Loghead told him that was his right, but that Lazy boye would not be allowed to "play games" with Loca Grande, and use her to get things he wanted. He told him it was NEVER okay to talk to any adult that way ever.

After he spent some one on one time with Lazy Boye, Loghead sat down and started drafting a letter to the lawyer, to see about getting CS payments. If she totally does cut the skids out, we still ahve to care for them for the next 4 years...

I can only hope he follows through on this....