FH and BM are now OFFICIALLY DIVORCED!!!!! For those who don't know, they were still "legally married" due to a technicality 6 years ago that was somehow overlooked for all these years. BUT just a few months ago, FH took steps to get it finalized and...their "union is now dissolved" You gotta LOVE lawyer talk! It's such a relief now that he no longer has ANY ties (other than the skids) with BM. It was a bit touch-and-go for awhile, thinking she wouldn't sign the papers or that she would contest it (to keep her medical benefits), but she signed and it went through! I wanted FH to send her a copy of the certificate (to rub it in her face), but he said that it's $20 to get an official copy from the courts if she wanted to remarry; and that if she wanted a copy, she can go and get it herself LOL I didn't even realize that we would have been doing her a favour! I mean, HE was the one who went and got a lawyer, and HE was the one who footed the bill for said lawyer, so yeah, why should HE spend any more money for HER??? So now, we can focus on planning OUR wedding. *happy dance* The only step now is to get CS reduced!