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KiFire's picture

BM, her SO, their crotchfruit and SD8 are all on vacation right now!!

It doesn't matter that July 4th is FDHs court ordered time, they're on vacation! "I don't think I should have to tell you when I decide to go on vacation! This is MY life, you can't control my every move FDHName!"

What irks me, other than the blatent ignoring of FDHs time, is that NOBODY OVER THERE HAS A JOB! BM hasn't worked in well over a year, and the 'work' before that was for 6 months. Her SO hasn't had a job since September, and before that worked at Big Lots. I guess they just needed a getaway for their SUPER stressful lives, all that hanging around must be hard on the mind and body.

And yes, this is all absolutely based in Jealousy. I want a vacation, FDH and I work hard. The time I spent being a SAHM was not bon-bons and TV. I was home because BS was sick and needed round the clock care. And during that time FDH worked 80-90 hours a week. He deserves a vacation more than anyone I know. The state that supposedly lets people live off it for generations was not willing to do anything for us. Yet BM is off on vacation despite having all the same stuff as us, minus the jobs. I'm a jealous bitch, and it isn't pretty.

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Anon2009's picture

If you think she's abusing any assistance she might be receiving you should report her. I'm sorry. Hopefully there's some the state can get on her if she's receiving welfare and abusing it.

If she's not, unfortunately you can't do much about it. But don't give her one red cent above what you're court ordered to.

KiFire's picture

FDH reported her while they were still married, she was receiving it while still living with and married to him. He turned her in, that's part of what broke up their marriage. In theory she's banned from state aid. but there are only so many ways to be unemployed and have children and survive.

Anon2009's picture

Do you have hard proof that she's on any form of aid?

FDH should use this link http://www.massresources.org/contact-us.html to say to them, "hey, I know BM was theoretically banned from state aid but I think she must still be receiving something. She went to __________ with her SO, my daughter and their daughter. Neither of them have jobs." And he can share with them copies of the emails and texts bm sent about this vacation via email.

Disneyfan's picture

Maybe her parents or his parents paid for the trip?

Will your DF do the leg work to document her planning a vacation during his scheduled time? If not, then she knows she's free to what she wants.

KiFire's picture

Oh she knows he'll drag her back to court, she just doesn't care. and why should she? Last time she kept SD from him for 4 months... he got ONE make up day, which she didn't allow. Nothing happened. Welcome to MA.