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Skids are good kids

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DH is visiting his kids this weekend. Called to tell me he was there safe and that both kids asked where I was, and said they had fun when I was there, and asked if me & my brother (their step-uncle?) would come visit next time (they get to play with my brother like he's another kid, they get along great). Then SS6 asked DH if we would have a baby, because he wants a baby sister. We haven't mentioned babies or future kids to the Skids because we figured it would be at least a year or two before we started having more kids, after the wedding and all. But it was sweet. I hope he still wants a baby sister (or brother, i would love either,but I hope for a girl myself) when we actually start planning for a baby! Lol

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Kattkatt's picture

I agree being mean is learned... It's all related to fear and how we cope with fear. If you learn to respond to uncertainty and anxiety with anger and cruelty you grow up being mean... Not to say my Skids are always great, they are normal kids who drive everyone nuts sometimes, but they have their moments! I am super impressed with them, though because BM is not nice, ever, and we know she says things about us in front of the kids. SS8 told her "I get to see my Papa, and you CAN'T stop me!" I mean, he's 8! He is a smart kid! I wish their BM was half as good as they are.