Mamas gonna blow
My SS8- soon to be 9 just pissed all over my 2.5 year old .. Reasoning ... "He peed in my shorts so I peed on him"... Apparently 1 was trying to pee in the commode and the other decided to also .. And the 2 year old managed to pee on the 8 year old .. So he retaliates by peeing all over him.. And I mean his clothes r covered from top to bottom ... Hubby is in bed bc he stayed up late .. I woke up him and he spanned him and sent him to his room .. When is enough enough?? I said I'm not putting up with this the rest if my life so he better do something about his behavior
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NO WAY! He pissed on your
NO WAY! He pissed on your toddler! WTF! What is it with skids and bathroom problems? In what world would this be ok to piss on your sibling? So now your toddler is covered in piss, needs a bath, bathroom floor is probably soaked and needs to be clean too, and hubby sent SS8 to his room and he's probably wallowing around in his pissy clothes.
If any other kid urinated on
If any other kid urinated on my child I would call the cops on them. I'm serious. if I could keep myself from beating them to a bloody pulp. This is divorce material right here., I would never be able to be in the same room as that devilspawn ever again.
In the county I live this
In the county I live this would be blown off if my hubby denied it ..
I just looked back on your
I just looked back on your previous posts- wanted to make sure you were a real member because this is so outrageous. Your SS has hurt your son in the past? You'd be an idiot to subject your child to any more of this.
All my husband has to do is
All my husband has to do is say no it didn't happen in court and it would be a he said she said and not be taken serious ...
All of this aside, you need
All of this aside, you need to protect YOUR child. Aren't you afraid of SS abusing him? I would be.
Ok I have to ask this, did
Ok I have to ask this, did you DH go back to bed after he spanked his son for doing this? And can you just put SS in the car and take him to BM and honk the horn as you throw him out of the car and drive away fast?
He laid there for a few min
He laid there for a few min .. But he is up .. I wish I could take him to her.. I have no clue how to get to her house or work ..
If you know the name of where
If you know the name of where she works, google it, get an address!
You know what, tell DH to take him out of there NOW. That is just a horrible disaster waiting to happen and your son the one on the bad end of it!
Last week when SD8 was
Last week when SD8 was smearing shit on the walls and SO was not getting home from work until 2-3 hours after I got home with the kids I kept playing this scenio out in my mind. Pack her up, ride to BM's house, throw SD8 out and slow down of course DUH, and just honk a few times while I give the finger to BM when she opens the door.
I would never let them be
I would never let them be alone ever...Absolutely disgusting. You need to protect your biokid. This kid is toxic.
Most of the time they aren't
Most of the time they aren't allowed alone together ...I was in the laundry room and they were in the couch watching tv .. Then I thought they went to wake daddy up but apparently they stopped by the bathroom
A big kid taking a smaller
A big kid taking a smaller kid to the bathroom is NO BUENO you need to wake up mom! Stop making excuses and protect your child! This kind of thing make me so impatient and mad. I want you to think about how your going to protect your kid!! NO ONE else is going do it for you! It's your responsibility and duty as a parent to protect your child!!
I think about this all the
I think about this all the time ... However. With hubby and his ex with their divorce and fighting over custody which is still going on the judge just keeps saying if u come back one of ya will get them all the time except every other weekend .. I haven't seen it yet, They continue to have split custody 50/50... So I know if I walk out of here my kid will be sent here without me and be around them with no one at all to stick up for him ... I feel like if I left it would only take ME out of the situation .. How does that help my child?
We have 50/50 and I HATE it!
We have 50/50 and I HATE it! I wish SO would just get her EOW or honestly not at all!
Do you recent your DH for having to worry so much about your son because of his child? My heart just aches for you and your little toddler having to constantly worry about SS doing something to him.
I resent the fact that no
I resent the fact that no body has made these kids mind bc no body wants to make them mad so they won't want to go live with the other parent... I use to be crazy about my step
No if I leave I won't be
No if I leave I won't be subjected to harm but nothing is done about anything around here
Spanked ... Wore his butt out
Spanked ... Wore his butt out ...
He sees a therapist Ina
He sees a therapist Ina regular basis ..
Hubs won't take them back to her bc she's nuts .. The whole situation is ridiculous
They were watching tv and I
They were watching tv and I went to the laundry room to fold clothes .. The walked by the door and I thought they went to get their dad up and apparently as stopped to use the bathroom & the LO decided he needed to go too.. I came out of the laundry room and the SS was in the bedroom and mine came down the hall way and was covered in or and said he peed on me.. I said no he didn't I bet u had an accident & he insisted he peed on him so I walked back to the room & said what happened why is He covered in pee .. SS said he peed in me so I peed in him ...
I'm venting today ... I hear
I'm venting today ... I hear the advice and read the advice ... I have refused to keep the kid I have told him to get the kid help.. I don't trust the "system" here
What Stacey said. And if
What Stacey said. And if you're worried about splitting up and your DH getting your child and having him around the kids unsupervised , you tell your lawyer and DFS how the kid soaked your child in urine and he will get supervised visits only. But ok, wait for your child to be hurt/abused and keep making excuses.
1st of all social services
1st of all social services has been at out house bc BM complains and makes up stuff and it's a joke here... And sadly the only way anything would be done is if he got hurt .. He has less if a have if getting hurt if I'm here with him ... Social services wanted to get mom for munchausens syndrome bc she took them to the dr every week and several times a week and thy never could .. She lied about seizures to get the kid on meds and caused him to have seizures and that wasn't enough .. It's a game here
You scare me. Getting your
You scare me. Getting your child out of this situation is not a "game". I don't care how the courts are. It's your responsibility to protect your child.
So it's better for me to get
So it's better for me to get out and send my kid back in the house alone? That's what will happen ..
NO, you get a lawyer (like I
NO, you get a lawyer (like I said above) and make sure the courts know your child was soaked in urine by SS- and specify that DH will get supervised visits only.
First off body fluids really
First off body fluids really make me go yuck. I'm going to buck the trend here though. I think all who have suggested you leave, kick the 8yo out or call the cops are wayyyyyy over the top. These are boys, little kids and yes an 8yo should know better than to piss on his little brother, but boys do really disgusting stuff at times. He got his butt spanked and maybe he'll think twice before doing something like it again.