My dh's ex is the same way.... she cheated and walked out 3 times, she lied and whored around.... she obviously didn't want dh but she doesn't want anyone else to have him either. There is no rhyme or reason for how these women behave... they are simply miserable.... maybe they see how we are successful in our lives with their ex and they are jealous because they will never have stability or a 'normal' life... what they don't realize is that they have created their own existance and only they can change it....

Serenity prayer- yea the thing about learn to accept the things you can not change, change those you can and the wisdom to know the difference...... ten years, I think i say it in my sleep- and humor- I long ago just started laughing histerically at the moronic crud that she will spew, its even funnier when she is standing right there when I do it! Yep, I am so over most of the games- she has tried everything from telling DH I am sleeping with other people, to trying to convince me(or herself-dunno) that DH loves her and after ten years still claims this grand love for him(as she blew or whatever everyone in town really showing her commitment) I just freakin laugh- she is jelous cause he married me- not her, adores me (somedays I don't know why) and he is so extremely committed I know she is just full of it! Laughing so loud she can hear me on her planet- I figure it is all worth it- I get a beautiful daughter and ten years in we have the closest of all her parental relationships- I get the prom, homecoming, college years and all still to look forward to- I got the man who is not perfect but is pretty damn good- and we have one handsome boy another on the way-I understand her being jelous completely,If I weren't me I would be.

There is no reason where logic does not exist