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I like not have SD there but WTF is DSO thinking????

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Submitted by ItHasGottenBetter on Wed, 10/01/2014 - 3:14pm

SD13. I blogged about her and BFF twins under my old name.

Timeline:
BM went to 'her mothers state' for a 17 day vacation. Sitting on your ass all day is quite a challenge Wink Sept 4th. SD went to twins house on Sat the 6th. I kid you not, she has been home for maybe 5 days since then. She was at BMs for 1.5 days and the rest of the time has been at the twins house.

She just flat out goes there after school on the bus, once in a while she lets DSO know. There have been a few times when he had no clue and wasn't answering texts. She does let him know each week how much money she needs to do whatever they are doing that weekend. Don't get me wrong, the Mother isn't a POS, but something tells me something is going on there and DSO doesn't care enough to stop it.

WHY IN THE HELL DO YOU WANT CUSTODY OF YOUR DD AND THEN JUST LET HER DO WHAT SHE WANTS BC YOU DONT WANT TO BE BOTHERED????

I am seriously thinking of calling CPS about this, but they wouldn't do anything anyway. SD may as well just live with BM. BM definitely would be up her ass 24/7 but that is better than not seeing your 13yo for weeks at a time.

DSO is so upset over the precious SS'. The SS' that are in legal trouble, locked up and don't have anything to do with him anyway if they get a visit or get a pass.

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Submitted by ItHasGottenBetter on Wed, 10/01/2014 - 3:20pm

Yea. I have already said no pregnant teens in my home.

It took a lot to turn my own damn DS around by myself, I'm a widow, I'm not even trying to fix his anymore.

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Submitted by ItHasGottenBetter on Wed, 10/01/2014 - 3:27pm

and I don't know what you are trying to say here???

Maybe its bc I see on the news where grown up girls go missing and I do worry about a 13yo that can do as she wants.

And since DSO doesn't listen to my concerns, I need somewhere to say that I am worried about what will happen in her future. She is the good kid.

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Submitted by Disneyfan on Wed, 10/01/2014 - 5:30pm

Is this the dad that won't allow the twins at his house because the "neighbors" will have an issue with them being a different race????

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Submitted by ItHasGottenBetter on Fri, 10/03/2014 - 8:54am

Mom knows. Mom didn't try and get custody so she doesn't care, SD didn't want to live with her bc BM doesn't think school is important or that having money for clothes and feed her kids either.