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Submitted by htchc4190 on Sat, 06/30/2012 - 4:03pm

Dear Bloggers... Sad

i really need help on how to overcome this resentment and hatred i have towards my DH daughter + BM... ive grown tired of feeling the way i do whenever i see or hear of them!! and all this just causes me tremendous stress. and i dont want to end my marrige solely on this particular reason.
i know that i will never like or much so get along with BM and the skidmark (lols to the skidmark }:) ) i just dont want to...... uhh...... hate them as much???

anybody here that can give me good.... or any positive advice?? so i can go on 'happily in peace' with my life with my DH and our 2 sons..

ARGHHHH!!!!!! dammit... im about to hurl.. :sick:

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Submitted by Latisem on Sat, 06/30/2012 - 6:22pm

:sick: I wish I could help but I can't. The only reason why I don't wish harm to psycho BM is then I'd be stuck with SK 24/7! My husband and ex are deaf. They can't hear the remarks, what they say, smart mouths, and disrespect. SK12 threw his xbox in his room bc he was upset and bm ran out to buy a new one. SK10 NON stop cries, throws fits, and gets his way. SK11 cries, whines, and starts fights constantly. ALL 3 have missed out on several good ass whoopings they needed! Neither parent believes in "discipline". "They are just sensative kids."
I have to constantly tell my son 12. "Not my kids, not my business." My son just steps away, shaking his head, "Wow! These kids are disrespectful!WoW!

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Submitted by htchc4190 on Sat, 06/30/2012 - 7:05pm

I've been making attempts to at least try to get along with them in the past. And whenever I start think that I'll be able to handle my DH attachments.... Dun dun dun.... The moment I see them, my blood boils, making me want to wring out their necks!!!

I really would much prefer..... When DH spends time or go elsewhere with us and our boys, let it just be us that's it...... And let him spend time with his other kid elsewhere WITHOUT ME AND THE BOYS!!
I very much hate having to to go my DH family barbecue and DH had invited them!!!! And its not just BM and SD.... But 2 other I can't stand to see also... Her 2 other younger kids, which btw isn't my DHs THANK GOD!! Each child of BM has a different father who pays no child support , except for DH of course...

Dammit... I really want to get over this hellish hatred I have locked up for 7 yrs deep inside
Me.... Or atleast enough whereas I don't turn into a monster (like I am right now) by the mere thought of them..

I am trying to do this mostly for myself and also for DH.

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!!!!!! Before I take out the Voo-Doo dolls !!!!!!