Let me just start with last weekend and work my way forward... I'm feeling so overwhelmed. Last weekend BM decides she wants to Leave her boyfriend, now making her homeless with 3 kids ( 2 are my skids) and staying with a relative. She decides this on a Sunday night right b4 it's time for them to go home, now ss15 has moved back in full time and ss10 majority of the time. BM wants my DH back after 6 years!!!! Constantly calling, sending inappropriate texts Ect.... All of this on top of skids is too much. I've just taken a lower paying job, he is about to be out of work for the winter, we are flat broke, while she gets welfare up the ass, and now all this. I feel like exploding. Skids are bad 24/7, complaining, disrespecting, easedropping ass shadows. I love my DH but I'm at my witts end with all of this BM and skid drama constantly. Yes I knew I was a package deal, but I don't think I can keep my sanity and have them full time, the frost 24 hours of ss15 moving back here was drama filled. My head has been spinning and hasn't stoped, I feel like I've taken on too much, less money more bills, a crazy BM and rotten skids, I picture my DH and I together but I just can't seem to picture skids in that anymore, I wonder if I should leave him, although it's my house so I guess I'd be kicking him and kids out which I wouldn't feel right about, that and I hate that I would be leaving just because I can't take these kids anymore it's like they got one last victory over me, one that breaks my heart cause DH is my best friend and my husband. I don't know what to do... We both have tried everything A to Z with these kids skid10 in particular nothing works he's just a bad ass kid that no one can get through too.