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I swear it really is the moon!!

hangingbyathread6's picture

So I blogged about an ex gf from five years ago suddenly, out of the blue emailing my DH hoping he's happy and maybe she'll get to see him more now that him and his boys live next door to her mother (conveniently leaving out his wife and three stepkids), then BM and her "I don't have to pay for the med bill because I have to pay for a room for OSS on your weekend (even though she brought a girlfriend with her and paid the extra for her to ride the bus lol) and now...I walk into work, check the voicemail and there is a message left last night at the office for my boss, whose wife of 20 years walked out on him two and a half years ago for a married man she met on the internet. He came home, she had emptied her belongings from the condo, charged a rental car to his CC and beat tracks out to California to meet her "one true love and soulmate" for a week long rendezvous in a hotel and then to travel back to TN to live with her mother in a trailer until her and her bf could get their divorces and money together to "spend eternity with the one God made for them".

She got her divorce...guess who didn't get his? That's the only time IRL they have been together, and it's 2 1/2 yrs later. Little bit of "oh shit, I really messed up" regret going on maybe??

Anyway, that makes THREE ridiculous ex antics in the last week...it seriously has to be the moon!!

Who else has had crazy out of the blue ex issues in the last week? Not the normal psychotic behavior we deal with on day to day basis but the "where the hell is this coming from?" kind of antics??

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JustAgirl42's picture

My FDH's ex-girlfriend from over TEN years ago started calling and texting him out of the blue a couple of weeks ago. He said she was rambling on and on about stuff and didn't sound right. She expressed interest in getting together, even though he told her his life was completely different now.

These women need to get their own damn man!!

hangingbyathread6's picture

Absolutely MFP!! The best part is that my DH, who when I finally did say something about not being happy about BOB contacting him and that I was feeling a bit territorial and he laughed and said "it's nothing" and I said, to you, no...to her, she's fishing...she's checking your status....looking for a crack in the door. he thought I was ridiculous and actually got a little upset with me that it bothered me; I was checking the messages at home and he heard it and he asked who it was. I told him, that's boss' ex wife. His face was priceless and he was like "why all of a sudden is she calling him after two years and saying she's sorry and she wants him to be happy? WTH is that?" I just looked at him like, "Okay really? Did you just hear YOURSELF...aaaaannnnnndddddd does this now change that maybe you shouldn't have gotten upset with me and I was right??" LMAO

hangingbyathread6's picture

Yup!! Saw it Sweet Pea!! The ridiculousness of it is quite hilarious!!

Glad you are feeling better!!