We went, picked SD up and took her to visit Grandma. At SD's request we took her home again, she'd beaten the crap out of this guy and his jaw was all swollen. He was begging her for mercy and promising he would not lift his hands to her again. SD is a little hellcat, she can pack a punch! So far this trip out and us returning her will lull the guy into a false sense of security that she'll be back. SD tells us that she's lining up an apartment of her own, where she'll have her own say and her own rules.
I still have huge reservations about her being where she's at, they are all his family and she might have to battle with all of them? We know blood is thicker than water and in 'the hood' it's even thicker than their skulls! This girl enjoys the gangster lifestyle but we cannot make her leave, maybe she'll end up back in jail and have no choice but to go straight? Who can say? Meanwhile, we can just keep in touch with her and if a message comes in with a code word 'Grandma' then we'll pick her ass up. DH is not going to tolerate any bullshit and if she comes back here it's the house rules, or back out the door!