A short update on the CO question from yesterday
After we got the issue sorted out that what she wanted was to switch weeks and DH said no we thought that was the end of it. BM texted DH asked what time he was picking SS up today.
Taking the advice of one of the posters I told DH to advise her to check the CO for the summer schedule.
LOL
This b*tch responded "Don't tell me what to do" and then "I know what it says"
So we have no idea what's going on. We aren't sure if she doesn't want to deal with SS, if she still thinks she will somehow get SS during our vacation weeks, or if she really doesn't know what the CO says. I wonder if she thinks it just says she gets 2 weeks of vacation but doesn't specify when...I know DH had it specified because we plan vacations early and it's really hard when she won't give DH and answer about her summer plans. So he eliminated that by specifying which month the two weeks of vacation are in.
DH said he will pick up SS after work.
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This is headed in a bad
This is headed in a bad direction.
I would write her an email (for a paper trail) telling her what dates SS will be at your house according to the CO. Keep it short and unemotional. Just the facts, ma'am.
Only telling her to check the CO allows her significant wiggle room should you ever have to take legal action against her for withholding SS.
I feel like the text
I feel like the text discussion they had last week discussing when he would be with her and when he would be with us PLUS she has the court order to review is more than enough I don't understand why everyone thinks (court included)DH should hold her hand and constantly remind her of EVERYTHING. Last Christmas it was our turn to have SS in the morning. Her and DH talked about it. 2 hours later she texted him and asked what are we doing for xmas again? Then a few days later she texted him again asking him "what are we doing for xmas morning?" and again the afternoon before asked him..."are you picking him up or is he with me xmas morning?" So either she can't remember or she is hoping his answer will change. But I don't think so because she doesn't remember dr's appts either.