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I hate my sister today...

Gabriels Mom's picture

Okay not really. Yea maybe a little bit.

SS has summer school until the end of this week. Not because he failed but because he effed around and did poorly and we wanted to make sure he was ready for 7th grade. It's like a review class. Anyway, BM told DH she couldn't bring him to the class. DH leaves at 630am and SS can't be dropped off at school until 7am. He asked me if I would do it. I said yes as long as BM brings him to us. I'm not driving across town to get him. It's not my fault they only have one car and her DH has to be to work for 7am. This morning I waited and waited for SS and he never showed and he didn't answer my texts. DH was unable to reach BM. So to avoid being late I took DS to my sister's. While I was there my exBIL was there dropping off their kids. They make me sick (Okay I'm just jealous because I wish Cuntalotapus and DH had this kind of relationship but whatever) This is the conversation I observed:

exBIL: Hey can you take son to dentist appt wednesday for a filling?
Sister: Sure what time is it?
exBIL: 2pm. Do you need me to pay for the filling or can you cover it?
Sister: Nope I got it.
exBIL: awesome. Oh I know it's your week but son wants to come home with me is that cool?
Sister: yep am I keeping daughter or is she going with you too?
exBIL: Nope I think son wants to come home with me because I bought him a new game this weekend. (to me) You want me to take little man (My DS) home with me and you can pick him up after work? (exBIL lives .5 mile from my house)
Me: That's fine. I hate you both. I'm going to work.

Now let me mention that my sister runs a small daycare in her home and my exBIL PAYS her to watch the kids on his time. He says her rates are better than summer camp and daycare AND they are with their mom so he doesn't have to worry about them. WTF! I hate them both. LOL

I called the school, SS did make it there. BM just chose not to let me or DH know that she was taking him. Seriously, would it have killed her to send a text? All she had to say was "taking SS to school today" and left it at that. I don't care about pleasantries. I care about not being late to work. My boss doesn't care but I do. My whole day will suck if I'm late because I'll be behind.

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Gabriels Mom's picture

That is crap. That is how you are SUPPOSED to get along. At least in my opinion. Sounds like your kid's SM is insecure. I think there will always be fighting or discord in the beginning. I think there are hurt feelings etc. but DH and cuntalotapus have been divorced for 12 years. She needs to get over it.

Gabriels Mom's picture

DH tries to get along with her but she is just ridiculous. Every conversation is a personal attack for her. Like he calls to tell her about a doctor's appt, in her mind because he made the appt and not her he is saying she's a bad mom. I have no idea how she makes that leap but she does.