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SD9 JUST LOVES THE SOUND OF MY VOICE!!!!

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Submitted by foxymama87 on Mon, 06/06/2011 - 11:55am

I think SD9 LOVES the sound of my voice. I DO NOT enjoy having to repeat myself more then once. for example....

"SD9 your dirty clothes go IN your laundry basket not balled up by your bathroom sink!!" (I have to tell her everyday she takes a shower..grr)
"SD9 clear your table! (I'm not your maid you have arms and legs that work perfectly fine freaking use them!! again I tell her every time we have our breakfast/lunch/dinner.)
"SD9 do not speak to your father in that tone of voice!" (SD9 is always rude and disrespectful towards her father, I Freaking hate it. Makes we want to give her a good slap. I have to consistently remind her 24/7.)
"SD9 Is your room clean? Why is it still dirty??" (Have to ask her about 4 times before she finally does it! Freaking Lazy ass)
"SD9 Get down from the computer room and join us for some quality time" (Every day After school she has to go straight up stairs to play computer games. Seriously? While BD/DH and I are in the kitchen cooking dinner. Its like we all live in the same house but in different worlds. Ridiculous!!
"SD9 How many times do I have to tell you to say excuse me when your trying to get your fathers attention. (rude ass usually speaks over BD or I while we're trying to have an adult conversation whether it be with each other or on the phone with someone.)
and my favorite...
"SD9 We don't speak about bowel moments at the freaking dinner table!! and say EXCUSE ME!!!" (She just loves talking about her nasty bowel moments, she burps without saying excuse me and she even Farts!! at the dinner table while we are all eating and thinks its freaking hilarious!!! Freaking A ahhh! I sometimes wonder if she's a boy)

I have OCD and it freaking bugs the crap out of me that she is sooo lazy and down right nasty when it comes to manners and her cleanliness! I mean seriously was she raised in a freaking barn!! She's freaking 9 years old! She is more then capable of picking up after her self, and should be well mannered by that age. I shouldn't have to remind her to say her please and thank you's!! I blame DH and BM!!!. BM doesn't give a rats ass about her daughter and DH is not strict enough when it comes to disciplining SD9. He lets her run all over him. Freaking SAD and All I can do is Set there and watch it get worse the older she gets Because she obviously refuses to listen to me or is just plain stupid!! Maybe if I tell her in Spanish or French she will understand.

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Submitted by snoopyinoz on Fri, 06/10/2011 - 4:11pm

Tell her once at the dinner table that it will not be allowed, and that she needs to say "excuse me" if she does it again, make her leave the table and go to her room, she is finished with the meal. If she gripes later that shes hungry, tell her, "well, you should have followed the table rules" as for the dirty room, Ask her to do it once, tell her to do it ONCE and then go in with a trash bag. If she starts griping, tell her (nicely) "you have been asked and told to do it, seeing as how you are not capable of doing it, I am going to do it, if you wanted to keep this toy/book/ect your room should have been cleaned" and (I know this will bug you to no end, it does me too) leave her dirty dishes on the table in her spot. at the next meal, let everyone else be served and when she complains, say "oh, I'm sorry, everyone else cleared their spots after the last meal, you will not be served until your place is cleared from the last meal, and I will not do it for you." OR, leave the dirty dishes on the table and let them pile up, and them put them in her bed,