Going home
Well I'm going home today so wish me luck. I've been keeping up with everything on here while I've been gone. I'd just like to say a couple of things. I left my ex over 14yrs ago and he has never paid cs, never called or written to the kids nothing. Even after I married H I continued to support my children myself. The times that H was unemployed I supported the entire family. I have tried to be a good bm and sm but sometimes the sks just don't want or won't let you be a good sp. I have never repeat NEVER been mean or mistreated sd. Yet this person has continually threatened and been physically violent with me. I gave up years ago trying to be a good influence and friend to her. If this makes me a bad person then so be it. I come here to let out my frustrations about her and H as so do many others. If I hadn't found this site I truly do believe I would have lost my mind. I have gotten so much support and good advice that I am very grateful for. As for bm she hasn't been in the picture for over 15yrs. We thought she had passed away but just found out that she was deported 8yrs ago. I feel that all of you here are good friends and I love you.
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Good Luck
Hopefully, it will be a peaceful homecoming. I have to say that if my SD had threatened me or been physically violent her ass would be out of there.
Praying for you
I hope some good things come to pass for you, very soon-!! Let us know what happens!!!
Hey, we still need the play by play of cruise or did I miss it?! if you can, just whatever you want to share - I have never been on a cruise
"A lie told often enough becomes the truth." - Vladimir Lenin
Ferretmom, I was just wondering...
I know you are not looking forward to seeing your SD- that much is CLEARLY obvious (and with her past treatment of you, who could BLAME you???)
But, with regard to your husband, how are you feeling about going back to HIM???
I know he's supposed to be working with a counselor now, but how do you feel about your marriage and the way he has treated you?
Just wondering. I give you a tremendous amount of credit. I don't know if I could go back at this point, having had the opportunity for the escape that you just had. I really wish you well.
And like MostEvil, I am praying for you as well!
"Of course things worked out nicely for Carol Brady...she had a live-in maid and Mike's first wife was DEAD!"
You are an amazing person
You are an amazing person and I agree we all really have an amazing bond that no one else can understand. We all should go on a cruise together, get drunk and just bitch and have a great time!!