Finally deleted and blocked all of DH's family on FB and it felt wonderful. I kept holding out hope (crazy I know) that I didn't hear what I heard on Christmas night, or that there was some reasonable explanation (i'm forever the optimist) but I woke up the other day and it hit me, they are bat shit crazy and nothing is every going to change that. I got a nice cup of coffee and just kept hitting block: Dh's mother, his Aunts, their kids. Such a freeing feeling.