My SS lived with his BM the first year that Dh and his EX were separated then when I married DH - BM sent him to us because they could not get along and she wanted to be single and free and live her life - then 3 years after he lived with us - he did not want to share space with DD - I don't blame him - he was 12 when she was born - also we threatened to take BM to court for CS and she decided it was time for him to live with her - we also said though that the last move was the last time he was deciding where he wanted to live. I was okay with it because I was at the end of my rope - very hard to work full time - newborn infant and spoiled brat teenager made for a very unhappy and close to nervous breakdown person!!

He has made mention a few times that he and his mother fight but I and DH have told him no more moving - one he needs to learn consequences of his actions and it is too damn expensive to keep moving him!!