Is it arrogance or low self-esteem?
OMG, the situation with SD19 just gets worse and worse. Her dad of at least six kids with at least three women boyfriend just put on Twitter that one of his pregnant baby mamas just had a stillborn baby.
What ... the ... hell ... is ... SD19 ... thinking?!
It's bad enough the man has at least six kids with at least three different women but he also has a woman pregnant by him? At least it wasn't SD19 (that I know of).
Is she really so arrogant she thinks she can make this work, or is her self-esteem so low she thinks this is as good as she can do? I really am baffled.
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Self esteem or serious issues
Self esteem or serious issues she needs a counselor!
Been there, done that, got
Been there, done that, got the T-shirt. She was even involuntarily committed to a mental health facility at one point. Doesn't seem to make any difference.
Low self esteem on her part,
Low self esteem on her part, arrogance on his part. She needs to get away from him before she ends up pregnant. He will leave her high and dry with no father for her baby and not a dime of CS. Just another notch on his belt.
I think it is highly likely
I think it is highly likely she WILL end up pregnant. Luckily, he seems to be a guy who at least tries to pay his CS and at least tries to see his kids (I'm sure it's hard when you have so many kids and so many BMs to juggle). On the flip side, he has not stayed with any of his BMs, so not sure what makes her think she'll be the exception.
Arrogrance~ she thinks she's
Arrogrance~ she thinks she's better than the BMs.
I'm sure the guy tells each woman he meets a ton of lies about each BM. A few will fall for the lies then set out to show the world that they are better than all the BMs. They work hard change the guy~make him a great dad and husband material.
If it works, they get the credit. If it fails, BMs are blamed for crushing his spirit. The guy won't get the credit or the blame.
OP, have you thought about why this guy is interested in your SD? I'd be worried that he knows how easy it is for her to get money from your husband.
Oh yeah, she's already
Oh yeah, she's already tweeting and putting down his BMs, as is he. She really drunk the koolaid this one is serving. I don't know about the money thing. SD19 is definitely a taker, not a giver. Like, they took three of his kids somewhere this weekend and I guarantee you he drove and SD19 made him pay for everything for her as well as the kids. That's how she is. So I'm sure she would be reluctant to share "her" money with him.
But, I'm a bit suspicious of DH because he decided on the spur of the moment yesterday to get something expensive for our two BDs. He "NEVER" does that unless he's just spent a buttload of money on SD19 and is feeling guilty. And he had his phone turned off completely this morning, so I haven't looked to see if he gave SD19 money yet again. Probably so. Wonder how much this time.
Arrogrance~ she thinks she's
Arrogrance~ she thinks she's better than the BMs.
I'm sure the guy tells each woman he meets a ton of lies about each BM. A few will fall for the lies then set out to show the world that they are better than all the BMs. They work hard change the guy~make him a great dad and husband material.
If it works, they get the credit. If it fails, BMs are blamed for crushing his spirit. The guy won't get the credit or the blame.
OP, have you thought about why this guy is interested in your SD? I'd be worried that he knows how easy it is for her to get money from your husband.
Maybe she deserves to be a
Maybe she deserves to be a stepmommy to (at least) six! Might make her realize what a little shit she's been to you.