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Submitted by Dontfeedthetrolls on Thu, 10/19/2017 - 1:03pm

Anyone have an issue if I start a "why he's amazing" post for us to brag a little bit about our partners.
I mean there's got to be some reason we stay and put up with BM drama and possible devil Skids.

Mine is amazing because he's always got my back.
For example in all the craziness of this morning I walked off and left my wallet so no money for lunch.

SO not only brought it to me but stopped on the way to pick up food for me.

So yeah he's amazing.

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Submitted by Puzzled9401 on Thu, 10/19/2017 - 1:15pm

He is tall enough to get what I need off the top shelf in the cupboard, so I don’t have to get the step stool.

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Submitted by I love dogs on Thu, 10/19/2017 - 1:27pm

He buys me flowers just because and always gives the best massages! Plus my family loves him and he grills for me.

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Submitted by CBCharlotte on Thu, 10/19/2017 - 1:53pm

Second the flowers just because. Plus DH is a gourmet chef! He cooks almost every day and I have gourmet food when I come home from work (he has time since still no job). Yesterday was risotto with butternut squash, Monday we had bangers & mash (DH is a brit) SOOOO GOOD.

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Submitted by Salems Lot on Thu, 10/19/2017 - 2:11pm

He makes me things.
If I mention I need something, like wig jig, he will go out in the garage and make it.
A potato bin, he made me one that looks like a table.
A lot of other odds and ends.
I have so many gadgets he has made for me simply because I mentioned them.

AND I HAVE CONTROL OF THE REMOTE }:)

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Submitted by mommadukes2015 on Thu, 10/19/2017 - 2:29pm

My SO is supportive. He reminds me that I can do anything I put my mind to and he's behind me, whatever I decide 100%.
He also works really really hard to close the gap between who he is and who he wants to be every day. I'm a fairly goal-oriented person, so when we had our little "what do you want in 5 years" conversation, we started making moves. Every door I've helped him open (writing resumes, deciding on a career path, pursuing it), he's been smart enough to walk through.
He's also a really good Dad. He's kind and patient and he knows how to diffuse my Mom Bomb.

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Submitted by GhostWhoCooksDinner on Thu, 10/19/2017 - 2:40pm

He treats my 90-year-old grandmother like the goddess she is.

He cooks dinner most nights and does laundry.

He actually parented his kids. Even though they were being PASed, he didn't give in to manipulation and threats.

He has 20/10 vision and I'm blind as a bat so he reads small print for me (LOL).

He doesn't take it easy on me when we spar in martial arts. Now I fight like a man. Biggrin

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Submitted by strugglingSM on Thu, 10/19/2017 - 3:32pm

My DH also buys me flowers all the time, just because.

He loves my family and they adore him.

He makes me laugh a lot...even sometimes without meaning to.

He wants to change the world and he's working hard to do that.

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Submitted by Livingoutloud on Fri, 10/20/2017 - 3:30am

I am my DH's priority. It sums it up, otherwise I'd be typing a long list of things he does Smile

Other men I was serious with were good men but I never truly felt as a priority. My 1st DH is a very good person and excellent father to DD and DDs siblings (his kids with DDs SM) but I wasn't a true priority when we were married (his CEO job or his yacht or getting on it across Atlantics or flying a plane or skydiving-yes he did and does all these things). And my long term ex SO is a good man but his priority were his adult DDs. Including insisting that one of them should live with us in adulthood, with no rules whatsoever. No matter what they always came first. Until I had enough and left.

I am finally a priority.