Will someone pull the knife out of my back?
ss17 gets kicked out by BM because she basically raised a pothead bum. so we take him in of course for 2 months...
anyhow. in order to get to see his girlfriend who lives 45 minutes away, ss17 and girlfriend 15 tell me this story:
gf15 is crying her eyes. out her BM is leaving her with her step dad and moving far away and SD did something really aweful to gf15 when she was 8. ss17 says can we go pick her up and help her calm down? i say well if she is being abused you have to tell someone. so he says yes, the mom took pictures of the gf15 naked when the girl was 8 because her step dad loved the way her body looked and wanted to remember it for when she grows older. i'm like, well, that's nots okay.
so i tell DH this and he's grossed out. i'm nearly puking and crying my eyes out because i know this girl and i have daughters and i'm just sick in my heart.
so i pick the girl up alone and talk to her and tell her, you know this isn't your fault, it was wrong and you have to tell someone, at least tell your Bio Dad. she's all calm and all, and i say, i'll give you some time to tell someone, but if you don't, i will eventually have to. okay so we visit and agree to talk it out later, but she never wanted to. she hung out with ss17 and acted just fine.
SO skip forward two weeks. ss17 leaves because he wants to quit school and make it on his own and he moves out on the street and been gone a week. gf15s mom calls to see if we can meet and let the kids get together again this weekend. i say, well, he moved out, i can't help you with that. with the opportunity at hand, i confronted her about the pictures her daughter claimed were taken and her mom says THAT NEVER HAPPENED. so she confronts her daughter while i'm on the phone, and the gf15 says that I am F-ing lying, that she never said anything like that and that I'm an F-ing lying B. and i'm alll WTF????
so ss17 texts me telling me i'm not his f ing mom stay out of his f ing life...blah blah blah, don't be telling gf15s mom ANYTHING. i didn't respond of course. but is this bizarre or what? i feel like an idiot being played by such masterful manipulative teenagers.
ss17 called DH immediately and ranted about me, and DH told me never to talk to any of them again.
after 2 months i just wanted to get that out. thanks for listening.
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Sorry Sweetie you were played
Sorry Sweetie you were played - the really sad part in all of this is that if you had called someone about this information the Stepfather would have been ruined. Even though it was not true just the hint of it would have done some serious damage so while you would have been trying to do the right thing and help a person you thought was in trouble you could have really hurt someone's life and livelihood. These asshole children only think of themselves and so just because they wanted to see each other they played on your heartstrings. It really is sick that they went to such lengths to even comment that he wanted naked pictures to remember later so he sounds like a guy who likes little children. That girl should be in huge trouble with her mom, dad and stepdad. Good luck with these two - sometimes I think my situation is bad and then I read some of you-alls stories and I feel blessed that my situation is not half as bad.
Unfortunately now since you have been played you will be so much more cautious and unbelieving when the next person comes along with a story like this and that person may suffer because you were played this time. Keep your kind heart and willingness to help someone in need - these kids are lucky to have you whether they realize it or not - some people would have just been like not my child not my problem - I am not getting involved!! Don't let this change you just next times it comes up and it probably will call them on it right away. Don't feel like an idiot - you did the right thing and the sad part is that these two thought it was okay to spew such a nasty story - I actually feel very sorry for them because someday they are going to get in real trouble with their lies!!!
Thank you so much for
Thank you so much for understanding. Sometimes, just to be understood makes all the difference in the world to me. I want to feel sane. It is disturbing what depths they will go to to get what they want.
My head was just spinning from this. Thanks for helping that stop!