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Awesome weekend!!!!

daisy0202's picture

I had the best weekend I have had in a long time.....

Friday had drinks with friends of mine. Sat did some errands, by myself, came home took a nap for about an hour, and then got ready for my date night. BS21 and BS14 were doing there own thing friday and sat together. BS21's girlfriend came down and they took BS14 out with them all weekend. (BS14 decided not to go to BF's house)

So Sat our date was suppose to start at 6 but DH showed up at 4...I was not ready yet so he played in the garage while I got ready. We left at 6 went for dinner at our favorite place, had drinks, talked for hours. OMG we were at the place for 3 hours just talking about everything. SD was never mentioned and before we even got started DH showed me his phone which was shut off...

We went home, made a fire, talked some more and had a great night. Next morning I made a big breakfast, and we opened the pool and worked in the yard. DH stayed till 4:30 helping me get the yard ready for the summer. Putting all furniture out, pool stuff, mowed the lawn, everything went great. No phone calls, no texting, phone was off whole time, and no talk of her what so ever. He didnt want to leave i could tell but off he went. It was a good weekend and like old times.

This morning we talked like always and i will not see him now till next sat. He tells me he has a surprise for me so dress up he says....Looking forward to it. SD's aunt called me this morning to chat and told me sd posted on FB "even my grandmother thinks I am a looser"....This child needs a hobby, a job, friends, and to become a normal teen....Its sad!!

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imthewife's picture

Though it's none of my business...I am curious as to what your reponse was to the aunt? And I am also very curious as to WHY she thought she would need to tell you this about SD?

Really? With all that you are going through, she really thinks that you need a call from her about the SD?

Sounds like someone knew this was a great weekend and thought maybe you needed something to ruin it?

daisy0202's picture

I told her thats sad....and changed the subject....

Not sure why she told me and to be honest i didnt even really think about that

amackeral's picture

Hooray for an awesome weekend! Definitely the way it should be, drama should stay at grandma's house Smile

imthewife's picture

Good for you. Just thought that was interesting because I always find myself, that the conversations always seem to follow that old addage..."all roads lead to..." And in this case...to SD.

No matter what is up or where we are...my SD always seems to come up...I though maybe this was the aunt who is over at the MIL's house...it's just too funny...

napamom's picture

So great! Quick question for you. I think I have your story correct by reading your blog. Did your DH move out but you are still going to stay married? I have been thinking of this solution for a while and your are inspiring me! My SD13 is also a nightmare and completely controls the energy of our house when she is there.

daisy0202's picture

Yes napamom...we are still married but he moved out with SD16 and it is going wonderful.